The truth of this world we live in...
Things get fucked up so easily. One mistake or even several can start a chain of events that can never be resolved. Matters of the heart are too commonly portrayed as something that has to be 'perfect' and can be resolved with a few heartfelt words. In reality, this is as far from the truth as it could possibly be. It takes time as words are said that can never be erased, they are set in stone for all eternity.
Actions are just the same. They can never be made ok again because they did happen and can't be ignored. But, they can be worked through with words. Words which although may not eradicate pain and hurt but can help the truth to be set free and problems worked through.
Life is not as perfect as movies make out. Life is not as complicated with so many more depths and trapped doors, losing the truth along the way. One turn of events can push someone over the edge and change their life forever.
Depression is in even the happiest of people, it just never surfaces until the worst happens, which it so often does. No amount of talking can make it better, it is just a plaster on a very real wound which although may heal, the scar is always there visible for all to see. You can cover the car up, hide it away from the world but in the end you cant deny its existence. People don't change, they just hide from the past and think they've changed. It is the plaster that will get pulled off because its not needed anymore. Forgiveness doesn't change that a mistake was made, it acknowledges that it happened and tries to regain what was once lost. It is needed because there are some things that a person can not do without.
Complexities of life are shown in the faces and souls of everyone around us and although they get on with their lives, no one forgets. They suppress it until they cant handle it anymore.
Our need for another human being stems from hope. Hope that another individual will erase all the shit in their head, but they're never around forever. Actions see to that. Words that hurt, erase all the good that was once done and a new plaster is needed. So, why do we continue to do it?
The human race is flawed, we are all looking for something better which does not exist. Suicide is the realization of this truth and is actually doing something about it. It has nothing to do with trying to hurt all the people around them. Are we not told we all have a choice? How are we able to make the right choice if others are telling us that it is wrong and is the easy way out? It is the best option for some of us and the people we care about should know that our love for them is never affected. People move away from each other and we don't cry that they're not here anymore do we? That is what death is, moving to another place and not returning. It is inevitable that we must die so why not choose when and how earlier than life has planned? Everyone moves on and people are never forgotten, things are just better for some to do things which stop the pain and enable them to feel nothing. Nothing is needed to stop insanity and face the unbearable the only way they feel they can.
Actions are just the same. They can never be made ok again because they did happen and can't be ignored. But, they can be worked through with words. Words which although may not eradicate pain and hurt but can help the truth to be set free and problems worked through.
Life is not as perfect as movies make out. Life is not as complicated with so many more depths and trapped doors, losing the truth along the way. One turn of events can push someone over the edge and change their life forever.
Depression is in even the happiest of people, it just never surfaces until the worst happens, which it so often does. No amount of talking can make it better, it is just a plaster on a very real wound which although may heal, the scar is always there visible for all to see. You can cover the car up, hide it away from the world but in the end you cant deny its existence. People don't change, they just hide from the past and think they've changed. It is the plaster that will get pulled off because its not needed anymore. Forgiveness doesn't change that a mistake was made, it acknowledges that it happened and tries to regain what was once lost. It is needed because there are some things that a person can not do without.
Complexities of life are shown in the faces and souls of everyone around us and although they get on with their lives, no one forgets. They suppress it until they cant handle it anymore.
Our need for another human being stems from hope. Hope that another individual will erase all the shit in their head, but they're never around forever. Actions see to that. Words that hurt, erase all the good that was once done and a new plaster is needed. So, why do we continue to do it?
The human race is flawed, we are all looking for something better which does not exist. Suicide is the realization of this truth and is actually doing something about it. It has nothing to do with trying to hurt all the people around them. Are we not told we all have a choice? How are we able to make the right choice if others are telling us that it is wrong and is the easy way out? It is the best option for some of us and the people we care about should know that our love for them is never affected. People move away from each other and we don't cry that they're not here anymore do we? That is what death is, moving to another place and not returning. It is inevitable that we must die so why not choose when and how earlier than life has planned? Everyone moves on and people are never forgotten, things are just better for some to do things which stop the pain and enable them to feel nothing. Nothing is needed to stop insanity and face the unbearable the only way they feel they can.