Being Bi
http://www.livejournal.com/users/jjlucido/151873.html">Bisexuality is Real.
...um...here's me borrowing this from sistahraven because I've found out as of a few days ago that i'm bi...so...questions, comments, concerns?....w/e yall think i'd love to hear cause i am so totally confused about this it's not even worth thinking about at the mo.
here's a quick summary:
[upon hearing me say, shortened, 'what d'you think about bi people?']
my brother matt: *jumps to conclusions...the right conclusion* you'll be much much happier if you're not bi. [me: uhh why?] because you'll be happier. your life will be better [me: O_o]
my best friend, who's openly gay: omg r u freaking serious? you're not just saying that, right? cause all bi's are posers. they're not hardcore enough to be actually gay and they just use it as a fake thing to get attention and pretend to be gay to be different *scoffs* [me: uh i meant...im bi] *blinks and pauses for like a minute* wait no way. nooo way kat. seriously? but you're...you're... [me: you're gay. why are you so upset? i thought you of all people would understand me! *is crestfallen*] *blinks* but...its....[me: its what?] *sighs* it's just different. that's all. [me: *tries not to cry* you're being an idiot ] *blinks again* my god im so sorry kat *hugs* [me: *cries into shoulder*] im sorry i shouted and i didnt know...everyone that's gay thinks that bi's are...are..lesser than them...
steve: *sensing somehow that i was devestated* aww what's the matter? [me asking him what he thinks about if i maybe admitted that i might b bi] well if that's what you want, then that's cool with me...[me: *is too preoccupied with being upset about what my friend and matt said to pay him much mind*]
so yeah..I also talked for awhile to with the husband of a friend, who's been an amazing help
but if anyone has any other suggestions, that would be a great help
much love to all,
kat
...um...here's me borrowing this from sistahraven because I've found out as of a few days ago that i'm bi...so...questions, comments, concerns?....w/e yall think i'd love to hear cause i am so totally confused about this it's not even worth thinking about at the mo.
here's a quick summary:
[upon hearing me say, shortened, 'what d'you think about bi people?']
my brother matt: *jumps to conclusions...the right conclusion* you'll be much much happier if you're not bi. [me: uhh why?] because you'll be happier. your life will be better [me: O_o]
my best friend, who's openly gay: omg r u freaking serious? you're not just saying that, right? cause all bi's are posers. they're not hardcore enough to be actually gay and they just use it as a fake thing to get attention and pretend to be gay to be different *scoffs* [me: uh i meant...im bi] *blinks and pauses for like a minute* wait no way. nooo way kat. seriously? but you're...you're... [me: you're gay. why are you so upset? i thought you of all people would understand me! *is crestfallen*] *blinks* but...its....[me: its what?] *sighs* it's just different. that's all. [me: *tries not to cry* you're being an idiot ] *blinks again* my god im so sorry kat *hugs* [me: *cries into shoulder*] im sorry i shouted and i didnt know...everyone that's gay thinks that bi's are...are..lesser than them...
steve: *sensing somehow that i was devestated* aww what's the matter? [me asking him what he thinks about if i maybe admitted that i might b bi] well if that's what you want, then that's cool with me...[me: *is too preoccupied with being upset about what my friend and matt said to pay him much mind*]
so yeah..I also talked for awhile to with the husband of a friend, who's been an amazing help
but if anyone has any other suggestions, that would be a great help
much love to all,
kat