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Oh...and Jessie..i hate her. If she would come over once in a while, bring the kids, talk with the parents, just chat and have lunch, but NO! We have to be all secretive about it, and have sex at her house, which, of sourse they do, and I found the USED condoms to prove it. God... Travis is so STUPID ABOUT THIS. WANT TO BEAT HIM
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First of all, I don't know why you hate Jessie. All she did was go out with your brother. The only reason I can think you would be pissed is because you were jealous. In that case, that's your own problem: you knew when you became an anti-social person what it entailed: realize that you can't just have one part of that decision. If you want a relationship too, you have to try for it, it can't just fall in your lap like I'm sure you want it too. And trust me, internet relationships almost always fail. Like worse than high school ones. I know you think you're cool because you've had a few "internet girlfriends," but you see how those went.
Second of all, I believe she did come and chat with your parents. True, she couldn't do it more often, because she has a job. Unlike you, she doesn't sit around all day doing nothing, and fast food really kills all possibility for a normal social life: I'm sure your parents wouldn't want to chat after 10 o'clock at night, since that's usually when both her and Travis are off simultaneously.
Next, I'm sure you didn't really find any used condoms. Can you please not embelish (sp?) the truth?
I won't comment on your calling her kids "mistakes," since it is well-covered above by others, but what I don't get is saying that she is "paying for them dearly." What do you mean by that? She isn't struggling at all. You don't even know anything about her; how can you make such broad assumptions about someone when you would get pissed if someone made them about you? I mean, you don't hesitate to point out the small vices of the yuppie crowd or the Church, but it's perfectly ok for you to do the same thing?
Now, see, this is usually the part in an argument where you get all defensive and shit, where you try to pawn your actions off as insignificant. This is the part where you need to contemplate your life and learn to adapt.
I'm not going to retort on your own lifestyle because I believe your brother has commented enough above, and I'm not at liberty to critize you, because I'm not like that, but I will say this: only you can drive your life forward. You are going to have to break out of your comfort zone one day and grow up. I'm sorry, but it has to happen. You only have two more years of school, Adam, only two years. Think about that from a few years ago, when in middle school. Two years didn't really seem like that long of a time, but you have to deal with it. How are you going to deal with the paradigm shift of you having to get a job, and college (where education isn't spoon-fed you like at Gardendale, because, trust me, it is), and not being able to sit around like and play video games (ones that you didn't even work to own, a life you take for granted, I will add) all day hits you. Before you bother to comment on things which you have no idea about, like having children (or sex in general), or living an adult life, you need to experience them; right now, you just come out sounding like an immature person who just needs to grow up. Only reason I'm typing this up is because I know you won't listen to the veiled truths in the other, insult-laden comments already posted.
Oh well, your life, not mine.
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