Contemplating

[shadez69]

This has to do with relationships. More to the point, long distance relationships.

I put a lot of thought into relationships. Perhaps that is why mine seems to work, perhaps not. Who am I to say? I can’t write definitive laws on relationships, I however can pose questions to myself, then show what answers I came up with. Perhaps they make sense,

Comments

[faucon9]

So many people are so lost on what it really means to have a partnership. It goes beyond being faithful, devoted, and highly compatible. You have to be able to love -yourself- before you can truly love anyone else, you have to be faithful, devoted, and highly consistent on your own before you can try and make something like that outside of yourself with another person.

That being said, if two people realize what they really want in a partnership, and will settle for nothing less, then it just might take looking a bit further than your own back yard to find that one special person. They will face all the problems you detailed - but if they are strong, and true to themselves and each other, then they can prevail.

Either way, it's a real test of courage. Courageous people make lots of mistakes, but sometimes they can't learn from them. Whatever their choice, they think it's the right thing to do and it makes them happy - and that's all that really matters in the end. If it was a mistake, then hopefully they can learn from it if they want to.

Good points by the way =) I haven't really thought about the dynamics of long distance relationships that much...

[shadez69]

It may take more looking, but then again, what your looking for may not be what the othe rperson is really.

[faucon9]

Very true - and well put =)