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-Sometimes you just can't explain things-
I like that....y do people always try to analyze things...I mean it seems like everytime there is a conversation its like they are looking for a hidden meaning ...like one of those jig saw puzzles that ya just can't figure out. Why can't people just take things for what they are.....I think thats why some people have the problems they do everytime they talk to each other they are looking for hidden means in the conversation. For instance if I said...."Yeah I had a good time with my girls tonight".....some people automatically assume that you all did something crazy or illegal! Which most of the time is not the case.....but then you have those times which something illegal was done....but thats beside the point! Whatever happened to TrusT??
Well speaking of relationships......thats probably where the whole analyze thing comes in....I don't know how many of my friends have ask me "Why do guys do that" and I always have the same answer "I have no idea" Guys have a real bad habbit of saying one thing and then doing another.....when they tell ya brb......well they are gone for like 2 hours....or when you ask them if they like something and they are like it don't matter but when it comes right down to it....like goin to eat or picking out a movie....they are just not happy so you have to start all over again...like find somewhere else to eat and let them pick the movie!
Im not tryin to bash guys tonight.....girls do it too....but more commonly in guys thats y i used them.
And another subject....What do you girls think about friends with benefits? Can it really be done?? Im my opinion I think it can.....but only if you sleep with the guy once......after that its all down hill for the girl. I mean sex is meant for people who care about each other....don't get me wrong sex is by no means a bad thing. I just don't think a girl can have a no strings attached sex only relationship with one guy and not have feelings for them....maybe some girls can...but all the ones that I have talked to feelings started to get in the way of the whole idea of no strings attached. I would love to have everybody thought on this! So leave some Comments!!!!
Ohh and another thing....is it the same for guys too....can they just go have sex with a girl and no feelings become involved??? I would like to know the answer for that question....Im sure it does happen...but guys are so good are hiding what they really feel.
But thats all for tonight....my mind was just full of these thoughts I just figured I would share!
*ShayaBeth*