update 4 finally
ok, so i left of on NYE of 2007.... so, mia and i made out and some other things but no sex... i left there that night wondering, but thinking that this was going to be the beginning of a relationship with her, should she break up with her guy... just cause that he called her from oakland saying "happy new year" and asking if she was cool being "alone", when in fact i was right there...
anyways, as i'm driving home i'm thinking of what it would be like to finally be with her and what not... and i'm thinking that wow it has been a long time going through all these "scenarios" with Mia, that it should be pretty great when we do get together... but then it hits me... what she is doing to this guy is something that she could quite possibly do to me... should she have a change of heart and not want to be with me for some reason... anyways...
2 weeks after the NYE happened and no contact from Mia what so ever... i've texted her daily and even left some messages on myspace... (my address there btw is www.myspace.com/ramirezja)... and she doesn't write or call back... this goes on into february... which is her birth month… so I text her and write her a myspace message saying happy b-day and what not… so finally after write her a little “meanie” note… (not too mean) but saying “hey whats going on? Haven’t heard from you since NYE)… so she comes back with a phone call about 2 nights later… saying “hey, sorry I’ve been busy, but I want to see you again so lets go out this Saturday.”… so I ante up for it, and look forward to Saturday night.
So its Saturday night and I call her up and tell her I’ll pick her up at her place… she quickly declines and tells me that she will just meet me nearby the place… (oddly enough, the song that reminds me of her is playing right now I’m the radio… Crazy!? Its better than me by Hinder) anyways… grrr we meet up in a parking lot and she jumps in my car and we go to have some pizza and beer at a local place that is pretty popular… the night starts well we are talking and laughing and have a good time… after about 2 hours of talking we start getting into the relationship topic… when then she starts to close up and be quiet… but she did come right out and tell me the she doesn’t want to be with her boyfriend and that she called him that night and told him that they are done… so I take it that she is free and clear… so I then make mention that she can see me and not have any bad karma about it… anyways… she made a few comments about wanting to be with me and what not… so that made me happy, lol. So we were done with pizza and beer (2 beers in 2 hours, cause I don’t condone drinking and driving) and we were thinking of what to do next… it was about midnight at this point… I personally wanted to play it the “nice guy” way and just call it a night… but she wanted to talk some more and suggested we go down to the beach… so we start walking cause the beach was about a block away…
As we are walking to the beach we walk past a hotel… and she makes the comment (warning: cover your kids eyes) “lets just get a room and f*ck all night” and she is smile and laughing as she says it… so I’m thinking “whoa?! I know you are kidding, but if your not, I’m game! Lol” so I say “yeah right, you know you don’t mean it”… and she says “I really want to, but its too soon”… *remember what she just said*… just before we get to the beach we stop at 7/11 to get something to drink… water and juice I believe… and we are paying for the drinks and the clerk asks us how our night is going, and she quickly says “ good so far, better in an hour when I’m screwing his brains out!” as she hugs me and starts laughing… at this point I’m thinking that she is going overboard and the jokes aren’t funny anymore… so we get down to the beach and sit along the cement wall that borders the borderwalk and the beach… while sitting there, I go into the relationship thing again… about when I’ll be divorced and where we could go from there… and me getting into my place and whether or not she is moving in June…
So she is talking and stands up to walk along the wall, when she turns and asks me “ would you get mad if I took my shirt off right now?” and I said “no why would i? I’m not your guy and its so late that no one is around to see.” So she did… showing just her bra… but then takes that off… then she asks “would you care if I took my pants off?” again I said, “no, you have a great body… I’d like to see it, lol” so she tells me to close my eyes, so I do… then she tells me to open them… when I do… she is standing there naked… and I’m thinking? What is going on here? The little jokes and then this? But no talk of a relationship? Grrr.. anyways, I laugh and she starts putting her clothes back on… it was at that point I was tired of the “beating around the bush” of the serious talk. So I call it a night… she agrees and we start walking back to the parking lot… she again makes a comment about have sex… but I just blew it off… we get to our cars and she tells me she had fun… and we hug, kiss and part ways….
So I get home and check my myspace, when I get a PM in yahoo messenger from Mia, asking me why am I already online? I told her I was checking on things… she goes on to PM me telling me that I should have followed her home cause she was horny and wanted to have sex with me… at this point I found no humor in it and quickly told her I was too tired to go back and that I was logging off… so I said “g’nite” and logged off before she could say anything…
since then I’ve never heard from her.. I looked on myspace an noticed that she and her man are back together as she had posted some recent pics of them two together… I sent her a message around late may telling her that I wish her well and don’t want to talk to her again… she plays too many games… and since then, I noticed that both her guy and her have deleted their myspace pages…
anyways, as i'm driving home i'm thinking of what it would be like to finally be with her and what not... and i'm thinking that wow it has been a long time going through all these "scenarios" with Mia, that it should be pretty great when we do get together... but then it hits me... what she is doing to this guy is something that she could quite possibly do to me... should she have a change of heart and not want to be with me for some reason... anyways...
2 weeks after the NYE happened and no contact from Mia what so ever... i've texted her daily and even left some messages on myspace... (my address there btw is www.myspace.com/ramirezja)... and she doesn't write or call back... this goes on into february... which is her birth month… so I text her and write her a myspace message saying happy b-day and what not… so finally after write her a little “meanie” note… (not too mean) but saying “hey whats going on? Haven’t heard from you since NYE)… so she comes back with a phone call about 2 nights later… saying “hey, sorry I’ve been busy, but I want to see you again so lets go out this Saturday.”… so I ante up for it, and look forward to Saturday night.
So its Saturday night and I call her up and tell her I’ll pick her up at her place… she quickly declines and tells me that she will just meet me nearby the place… (oddly enough, the song that reminds me of her is playing right now I’m the radio… Crazy!? Its better than me by Hinder) anyways… grrr we meet up in a parking lot and she jumps in my car and we go to have some pizza and beer at a local place that is pretty popular… the night starts well we are talking and laughing and have a good time… after about 2 hours of talking we start getting into the relationship topic… when then she starts to close up and be quiet… but she did come right out and tell me the she doesn’t want to be with her boyfriend and that she called him that night and told him that they are done… so I take it that she is free and clear… so I then make mention that she can see me and not have any bad karma about it… anyways… she made a few comments about wanting to be with me and what not… so that made me happy, lol. So we were done with pizza and beer (2 beers in 2 hours, cause I don’t condone drinking and driving) and we were thinking of what to do next… it was about midnight at this point… I personally wanted to play it the “nice guy” way and just call it a night… but she wanted to talk some more and suggested we go down to the beach… so we start walking cause the beach was about a block away…
As we are walking to the beach we walk past a hotel… and she makes the comment (warning: cover your kids eyes) “lets just get a room and f*ck all night” and she is smile and laughing as she says it… so I’m thinking “whoa?! I know you are kidding, but if your not, I’m game! Lol” so I say “yeah right, you know you don’t mean it”… and she says “I really want to, but its too soon”… *remember what she just said*… just before we get to the beach we stop at 7/11 to get something to drink… water and juice I believe… and we are paying for the drinks and the clerk asks us how our night is going, and she quickly says “ good so far, better in an hour when I’m screwing his brains out!” as she hugs me and starts laughing… at this point I’m thinking that she is going overboard and the jokes aren’t funny anymore… so we get down to the beach and sit along the cement wall that borders the borderwalk and the beach… while sitting there, I go into the relationship thing again… about when I’ll be divorced and where we could go from there… and me getting into my place and whether or not she is moving in June…
So she is talking and stands up to walk along the wall, when she turns and asks me “ would you get mad if I took my shirt off right now?” and I said “no why would i? I’m not your guy and its so late that no one is around to see.” So she did… showing just her bra… but then takes that off… then she asks “would you care if I took my pants off?” again I said, “no, you have a great body… I’d like to see it, lol” so she tells me to close my eyes, so I do… then she tells me to open them… when I do… she is standing there naked… and I’m thinking? What is going on here? The little jokes and then this? But no talk of a relationship? Grrr.. anyways, I laugh and she starts putting her clothes back on… it was at that point I was tired of the “beating around the bush” of the serious talk. So I call it a night… she agrees and we start walking back to the parking lot… she again makes a comment about have sex… but I just blew it off… we get to our cars and she tells me she had fun… and we hug, kiss and part ways….
So I get home and check my myspace, when I get a PM in yahoo messenger from Mia, asking me why am I already online? I told her I was checking on things… she goes on to PM me telling me that I should have followed her home cause she was horny and wanted to have sex with me… at this point I found no humor in it and quickly told her I was too tired to go back and that I was logging off… so I said “g’nite” and logged off before she could say anything…
since then I’ve never heard from her.. I looked on myspace an noticed that she and her man are back together as she had posted some recent pics of them two together… I sent her a message around late may telling her that I wish her well and don’t want to talk to her again… she plays too many games… and since then, I noticed that both her guy and her have deleted their myspace pages…