who would have thought?
who would have thought my g-ma could get more guys than i could! my g-ma use to have a lot of boyfriends when she was younger and she had every right too because she's an amazing woman and she was gorgeous! well she got married really young, i want to say 17 or 18, normal back then i guess, to my g-pa. about a year and a half ago my g-pa passed away and my g-ma has been a wreck! seriously everytime i would talk to her she would start crying and we flew her out to midland for christmas last year so she wouldn't have to be alone. well she tripped and grabbed onto a table that had a lamp and a little glass figurine thing. the figuring ended up breaking and she started to bawl!! if i could have i would have switched places with her in a second. anyway, she ended up moving to cullman which is about 45 mts outside of birmigham to be with some of her friends. she has the cutest little duplex and is living a great life right now. she still gets upset, but she seems to be doing good. now this is the interesting part. when i was home for christmas my aunt called and left a message saying some guy was coming to stay with her a few days. he was an old friend that lived down the street from my mom's first house. i didn't think anything of it because i have guy friends and its no big deal for them to come over and spend the night. well to my mom and my aunt this was a big deal. how well did my g-ma really know him? why was he talking to her now after so long? well my g-ma hasn't told my mom about the situation because she thinks she will down on her, so she has been discussing the whole thing with my aunt...someone you should not take advice from. of course my aunt is relaying the information back to my mom, who is then telling me. gotta love family gossip :) so the man came and visited for a few days and my grandmother was all giddy. she felt like a teenager again and didn't know how to react. now i didn't think anything of it until my mom told me the other night that he asked her to move in with her. HOLY SHIT! was all i could think....i mean my g-ma can get a guy and i can't? WHAT THE HELL?!? i am happy for her because she won't be lonely and will have someone to talk to an all, but yuck! lol. today my mom told me that he is going to move into her place because it is nicer and my g-ma knows that she can't marry the guy because she wouldn't get any of my g-pa's insurance or social security if she marries again. which would suck cuz she wouldn't have any source of money. this is kinda sketchy and i dont really know how to take it yet because i'm not in b'ham. i am happy for her, but i don't want her heart to get broken or anything like that since she has already lost the love of her life a little over a year ago. i wish her the best and we will just have to see how things go.