Feb 14, 2006 20:07
i wont to ask every one some thing
what is a friend to you is it some one that you use when you are bord, some one that makes you happy when no one else is there to, some one that you can cont on, or is it some one that you can tell things to and know that they wont tell any one ells.
Me i was never to shore what a friend was i use to think a friend was some one that you can have fun with and that was it witch is good but as i started to grow up and began to look back and seen all the people that i knew from 1st grade till now i realized how we all go throw people that we call friends and really think nothing of them and kinda forget them because hay, there gone don't need to worry about them but what we fail to realize is that they are not gone because we don't see that they are with use every moment, in what we say in what we do, in our ideas and feelings. so to me each friend represents a world in us a world possibly not born until they arrive and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born, friend ship is a tricky thing its easy to find a person or lots of people to be friends but what we should all know is true friendship consists not in the multitude of friends, but in their worth and value but some times we can be so blinded by how many people that we know that the real friends can be stairing you right in your face.
lately i have failed as a friend, a old friend of the family once told me "when we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most us we often find that it is those who instead of giving much advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a gentle and tender hand the friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares" i did not honor that i know that it was a huge mistake on my part but i have always been a good friend and one mistake should not be held agents me.
so now what is a friend to you are they still some one or are they just a little bit more the choice is yours but know this they wont be there forever for you to realize that they were a good friend to have so make it quick or they will just be another memory of the past.
oh and just one other thing It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them. lmao later