No, it's not. It's no one's fault. It SUCKS, it's SAD, and it's generally an awful situation. But no one is at fault. From what I know about the situation, you wouldn't say it's his fault that you were unhappy. You just were; that's not your fault either. It is what it is and all that anyone expects of you is to do the best you can. No one is to blame.
Now... having said that, I wouldn't say Fischstick and I had a *terrible* time at the Lair.. watching you guys play was pretty redeeming. I'm hoping Servitus will be much better this weekend, though. Hanging out with you and Sox can make even the most deplorable situation tolerable. And besides, the cake made up for any unpleasant things that happened that night!!!
*hugs*
...and I never do those corny *hugs* things, so you should be quite flattered. ;)
I am hoping that Servitus is able to redeem itself in my eyes after the last and only time I have gone there. As long as there is some chance to play it will be good, and even if not I am sure your company will make up for it :)
I know you have a lot of hurt in you :( but until you stop blaming yourself it's never going to get any better. No one is to blame hun and as I told you before if you stayed with him imagine how much MORE hurt would have come about. You did the right thing.. I know it sucks that he's mad at you and I know it's tough to have the knowledge that he is mad but what about you?
Are you happier because of your split? Yes. Will he be happier for it in the long run? Yes.
I can only say so much but until you forgive yourself nothing will be right, including us. Know what I mean?
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No, it's not. It's no one's fault. It SUCKS, it's SAD, and it's generally an awful situation. But no one is at fault. From what I know about the situation, you wouldn't say it's his fault that you were unhappy. You just were; that's not your fault either. It is what it is and all that anyone expects of you is to do the best you can. No one is to blame.
Now... having said that, I wouldn't say Fischstick and I had a *terrible* time at the Lair.. watching you guys play was pretty redeeming. I'm hoping Servitus will be much better this weekend, though. Hanging out with you and Sox can make even the most deplorable situation tolerable. And besides, the cake made up for any unpleasant things that happened that night!!!
*hugs*
...and I never do those corny *hugs* things, so you should be quite flattered. ;)
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I am hoping that Servitus is able to redeem itself in my eyes after the last and only time I have gone there. As long as there is some chance to play it will be good, and even if not I am sure your company will make up for it :)
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I know you have a lot of hurt in you :( but until you stop blaming yourself it's never going to get any better. No one is to blame hun and as I told you before if you stayed with him imagine how much MORE hurt would have come about. You did the right thing.. I know it sucks that he's mad at you and I know it's tough to have the knowledge that he is mad but what about you?
Are you happier because of your split? Yes.
Will he be happier for it in the long run? Yes.
I can only say so much but until you forgive yourself nothing will be right, including us. Know what I mean?
Love, Rich
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That was so cute/Beautiful! :)
You know you forgot to mention that I was talking in my sleep during the
"I NEED this" saga ;)
Glad you like the movies....
"Why Johnny I forgot you were there. You may go now"
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