*XX* New Anal Toy *XX*
A few days ago, Elysa and I went and bought the Fokuoku 9000 clit massager, an anal toy, and some crotchless lingerie. She's already mentioned that the lingerie was a big hit and is a great piece of clothing if you're like me and really love the look of seeing your beautiful woman in a sexy outfit. We always get a laugh when she puts on her booty shorts because I'm always torn between leaving them on and taking them off of her. These new crotchless panties allow me to have my cake and eat it too (pun intended! ;) and they look amazing on her. The clit vibrator was also a big hit for her and it's very simple to use toy, quiet, and small enough to discretely hide away when the inlaws come over for coffee or to keep in your pocket for when you just can't wait to get yourself off. I guess that means we're 2/3 so far. On to the anal toy..
First of all, selection was difficult especially since we were trying to find something we could both enjoy and use on each other. It was my first time having any kind of toy near my ass and Elysa and I had only briefly experimented with her previous vibrator just a bit on her. We stayed away from the Jelly vibrators because the silicone ones last longer, are easier to clean, and felt better than the Jelly ones. In the silicone department, we wanted something for the novice-beginner which ruled out a bunch more toys that were a little "larger" then the rest. We opted for the Royal Mini-Mole which had a Sue Johanson recommendation on the box (any other Torontonians out there know that Sue Johanson is a sex goddess and rarely has bad advice. She also recommended the Fokuoku which is the main reason we chose it.) Today we only had time for a quick shower and for Elysa to get herself off with her new toy before she had to go to work so I was left a little horny and home all alone with porn and a new anal toy. Curiousity got the best of me and I brought out the new toy and decided to see if an anal toy would add anything to my experience. Now guys, let me tell you, sitting alone and deciding to use an anal toy on your own self for the first time while jacking off to porn is not an easy thing to actually do so don't think that you're alone if you are hesitant to try it. It took me about 20 minutes of looking at porn and getting myself really worked up before I finally decided to give it a go.
I started by just putting a condom on my middle finger and putting some water-based lube (for silicone toys you can't use silicone lube as it deteriorates the material. Even with a condom on the toy, I decided to play it safe as silicone sex toys are NOT cheap!) on my finger and slowly rubbing around my anus. After a few minutes of this I slowly inserted my finger and got used to the sensation by slowly pulling it out and putting it back in. Don't panic if your dick goes completely limp because it happened to me and I think it's just because I was concentrating on relaxing and not staying "in the mood". After awhile I put two fingers in my ass and then finally decided to try the toy. I got a new condom out, put it on the toy and lubed the hell out of it. Anyone who owns or has seen the Mini-Mole knows that the tip is ball-shaped on the end (wider then the middle) and this was the hardest and most uncomfortable part of getting the toy inside me. Just go slow and concentrate on relaxing and everything should go fine. If it hurts, back off and add lube and try again. After I got the toy inside me, I put it onto slow vibration and adjusted to this sensation. I started concentrating more on getting myself worked up again and started jacking off and before long I had it on level 3 of 4 vibration and got myself off fairly quickly.
Now your all wondering whether or not I enjoyed it and to be honest, I'm not entirely sure. I didn't not enjoy it but it also wasn't a mind-numbing orgasm. I was a bit frustrated by the fact that I had to hold it in with one hand the whole time although maybe that's just because I'm not used to it, wasn't relaxed enough, or don't know how to control my muscles to hold it in. Only experience and testing will determine that. When I came, it did add an extra bit of pleasure to my orgasm for sure but the whole experience of cumming was a very different sensation. I can't say that I liked it better but it was a different and interesting experience. I will definitely try it again and will get Elysa to use it on me sometime. I imagine it would feel good while having sex (if I could keep it in) and would probably feel like heaven if she sucked me off with it in but I really don't know. I will keep you updated on when I try it again next.
I'm curious as to what other people have to say about anal vibrators. Are there tricks to keeping it in? Any advice or tips or specific products we should get? Etc etc.
~ Jeremy of
~Sexual Secrets~
First of all, selection was difficult especially since we were trying to find something we could both enjoy and use on each other. It was my first time having any kind of toy near my ass and Elysa and I had only briefly experimented with her previous vibrator just a bit on her. We stayed away from the Jelly vibrators because the silicone ones last longer, are easier to clean, and felt better than the Jelly ones. In the silicone department, we wanted something for the novice-beginner which ruled out a bunch more toys that were a little "larger" then the rest. We opted for the Royal Mini-Mole which had a Sue Johanson recommendation on the box (any other Torontonians out there know that Sue Johanson is a sex goddess and rarely has bad advice. She also recommended the Fokuoku which is the main reason we chose it.) Today we only had time for a quick shower and for Elysa to get herself off with her new toy before she had to go to work so I was left a little horny and home all alone with porn and a new anal toy. Curiousity got the best of me and I brought out the new toy and decided to see if an anal toy would add anything to my experience. Now guys, let me tell you, sitting alone and deciding to use an anal toy on your own self for the first time while jacking off to porn is not an easy thing to actually do so don't think that you're alone if you are hesitant to try it. It took me about 20 minutes of looking at porn and getting myself really worked up before I finally decided to give it a go.
I started by just putting a condom on my middle finger and putting some water-based lube (for silicone toys you can't use silicone lube as it deteriorates the material. Even with a condom on the toy, I decided to play it safe as silicone sex toys are NOT cheap!) on my finger and slowly rubbing around my anus. After a few minutes of this I slowly inserted my finger and got used to the sensation by slowly pulling it out and putting it back in. Don't panic if your dick goes completely limp because it happened to me and I think it's just because I was concentrating on relaxing and not staying "in the mood". After awhile I put two fingers in my ass and then finally decided to try the toy. I got a new condom out, put it on the toy and lubed the hell out of it. Anyone who owns or has seen the Mini-Mole knows that the tip is ball-shaped on the end (wider then the middle) and this was the hardest and most uncomfortable part of getting the toy inside me. Just go slow and concentrate on relaxing and everything should go fine. If it hurts, back off and add lube and try again. After I got the toy inside me, I put it onto slow vibration and adjusted to this sensation. I started concentrating more on getting myself worked up again and started jacking off and before long I had it on level 3 of 4 vibration and got myself off fairly quickly.
Now your all wondering whether or not I enjoyed it and to be honest, I'm not entirely sure. I didn't not enjoy it but it also wasn't a mind-numbing orgasm. I was a bit frustrated by the fact that I had to hold it in with one hand the whole time although maybe that's just because I'm not used to it, wasn't relaxed enough, or don't know how to control my muscles to hold it in. Only experience and testing will determine that. When I came, it did add an extra bit of pleasure to my orgasm for sure but the whole experience of cumming was a very different sensation. I can't say that I liked it better but it was a different and interesting experience. I will definitely try it again and will get Elysa to use it on me sometime. I imagine it would feel good while having sex (if I could keep it in) and would probably feel like heaven if she sucked me off with it in but I really don't know. I will keep you updated on when I try it again next.
I'm curious as to what other people have to say about anal vibrators. Are there tricks to keeping it in? Any advice or tips or specific products we should get? Etc etc.
~ Jeremy of
~Sexual Secrets~