note to someone whos's selfish enough to try to ruin someones life...
look when if rist heard she was going to go on a date with you i was just as excited as she was. and when she told me how much you too clicked i was just as excited as she was. then we came and visited and the weekend turned out great. when you two made it official i was just as excited as she was. then you came down for my wedding, i even told her that it was alright if she spent the night with you bc i knew she loved you very very much. i told her it didnt bother me. i let you have my friend my maid of honor on the night that i needed her the most because i was just as excited as she was. finally she found a guy who will treat her right and see her for what she is not what he wanted her to be. then it all came crashing down in a cloud of dust. i would see her in the mornings like she didnt sleep all night, just to find out that you two fought all night on the phone. she would call me in tears because you would blame her for problems that wasnt even her fault. every little thing was her fault and you made her feel like shit. then she thought that if she moved up there that things would be better. that turned out to be false. you two would be happy one minute and tehn the next it would be like jeckle and hyde and you would throw her out of your house. and this is love you say? finally she couldnt take it anymore and came back home to people who actually loved her and you tried to pull her back. you felt your control slipping as the distance became greater. so you continued to make her cry and feel as though all of your problems were her fault. then things finally broke off. you told her basically not to call you but youll call her. and let me tell you that almost drove her off the edge. she loved you so much even though you put her through hell. she put everything into that relationship and all you did was suck the life out of her. she finally got up the nerve to be happy again and she found someone who makes her feel like shes actually a person. you read in lj that things are going great and that she has found to one who makes her happy. you then realize your control over her is finally breaking. so you try and get her back, but in doin so you make her cry and feel like shit again. what the hell...is that what you think true love is making the one you supposedly love feel like shit? it must make you feel like a big man to make a women cry and shit. either that or you get off on it. i dunno. that is your business. but let me tell you something you let her go, you le tgo the greatest thing you ever had. and that is YOUR fault not hers. leave her alone and let her be happy if you truely love her just leave and don look back. i dont know why you are truely doing this but i can tell you that you are hurting her more and more. she put her trust in you to hold her heart with care and all you did was crush right in front of her eyes. she is happy now. trying to cause problems betweent he two of them is not going to make you seem like the beter man just the one who is insecure enough to break up two people so he could swoop in and seem like the hero. get over yourself and get your own life. you are more than capable to do that. let her lie hers and let her be happy. do the goo thing for once. yes i thought that you two were good for each other but as things went on i watch as you drained the life out of her. just as she began healing her wounds and geting back to a life she truely deserves you come back to reopen the wounds she managed to close. i know i know this is ashley she just goes with the flow of things. well sorry i have sat by too long and watchd people hurt her and she is family to me. i am tired of people treating her like shit and then expecting her to take them back. she deserves better, she deserves someone better than you. leave her alone. let her get on with her life and let her be happy. she deserves to be happy. if you love her like you say you do just let her go and get on with you life without her. yes she may have said she would sait for you but you waited too damn long. someone swept her off of her feet. let me tell you something she is happy truely happy. now please just go...