Im joe and I ran accross your LJ on slave girls becuase well...iv finally decided that whatever "my world" might think of it im a sadist... yeah I live in an interesting world 18 and still a virgin in the technical sence... I guess my question would have more to do with me then with you...Where do you meet people with you same erm interests and appetites? (whats funny is that about most things im anything but shy but with this it takes a bit of nerve for me)
"The measure of your life is not what your willing to die for but what your willing to live for"
I dont know spacificlly what I'm looking for but I know if freaked out previous gf's...I dont have a pierceing or a tatoo infact if you just met me youd pretty much get the nice nerdy guy impression which is why the girls I attract arent into anything like I am...I do like bondage a lot and wips is cool and humiliation stuff...I really dont know the extent of my interest Im at college in the Upper Peninsula of Michigan in a town called Houghton ...I cant really find anyone up here its a bit conservative and prudish up here as most of my life has been which is why I have like no expierience...
I used to be into some aspects of the lifestyle to a certain extent...if you haven't already, I'd say check out "resource" and education-type sites; you'd be amazed at the quality of information there (everything from safety tips to how to meet people with similar interests). Not sure how close you are to the Canadian border, but Ontario has quite a few groups representing people into the lifestyle who even get together in real life as well as online (such as this one). The more you learn, the better idea you'll have about what appeals to you and how to hook up w/ others who have similar desires.
The real problem I'm having is not really knowing...I mean I didnt just suddenly decide I want to have kinky sex... I think I might be considering an alternative life style...maybe...but its one that is soo different from the one iv been living that im not really sure yet... well I know I dont like needles...I really dont like needles... I dont think that at this point in my life I fit the look at all nor am I so sure I'd want to look the way I think... one of the reasons its so hard to decide or even talk about this with someone...my background and "culture" very much reject things like this ( oh well I never really fit in that well to begin with)...its been a long time in deciding I was actully going to try this all out and I suspect this adventure is hardly even begun yet...
Re: hellostarsnhereyesDecember 10 2004, 01:15:32 UTC
lol! Yeah, that's why I said it depends on what he's looking for. I'm guessing an 18 year old with minimal sexual or "scene" experience isn't interested in paying a professional domme though! :-p
I didn't realize there was a listing like that. Of course, I know a girl who is an "escort" and her company is listed, just the errr... range of services aren't. ;)
LOL im a college student I'm lucky If I have penut butter in the room let alone paying for sex...man I could go for some penut butter...I dk how well I fit in the "scene" but I know I sure as hell dont fit into my current "culture"...Im not tooo far from the canadian border but i have to drive around superior so its like 5 or 6 hours...plus I have no car on campus ...Is there anything in IL which is where im from, cuase I still go back there now and then...and I even have a car there... but yeah thanx for the advice ...on an ironic note even though its very conservative up here in town theres an interesting store called the backroom...maybe theres stuff on campus I just dont know where to look...
lol, well i guess posting in my journal was a good start as far as meeting people goes, because you got like 10 responses. im actually in a similar situation as you described, my interests are generally considered 'dark' or 'goth' (bondage, s+m, blood play...) but i dont look the part. im in a pretty sheltered area, its not really conservative, but im in a small town where most modern stuff hasnt quite hit us yet- so if i started piercing anything besides my ears and openly expressing my lust for vampires, id be sent to an institution. (not that it didnt happen anyway) basically im saying that i also have trouble meeting people in this scene because there arent many around me and i dont look the part at all. but a couple people in my area have actually surprised me when after i got to know them a bit i realized they were more like me than id originally thought. i guess when itcomes to meeting people in these kinds of areas its kind of hit-or-miss, but its been helpful for me to just let it be known that im a bit unusual in my sexual
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as I said in another post I added you as a friend =) ...lol see I dont have to worry about being in contact with the devil im a "nice jewish boy" haha or at least I was raised to be one which based on my theories is why Im not trully one...blood play sounds interesting (man you wouldnt belive how against the grain of my personality it is to admit that) but I dont like needles not one bit even though I get allergy shots...I'v had people surprise me but ussually its more in the NOT accepting me then the accepting me department...I'm from suburbs of chicago so im definatly at least partially a city boy never been insitutionalized but iv talked to the school shrinks in years past cuase of all the deaths in my familly and some um...anger issues (6 year old tears rocking chair to shreds with bare hands)...though iv never hit a girl in my life haha I guess im kinda a "closet sadist" which is problly why my recent relationships have failed so amazingly...I come off different then they think...ok so yeah iv ranted for a good few min here and
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I think maybe the first thing id want to try is bondage?? ...Im paying for tuition so unless I can get an IOU for tieing her up that lasts the next like 5 years... I cant pay for anything like that lol =)
although I do have some money being one of those rare students who doesnt drink...but thats how I pay for um...my food and clothing...books are on scholarship so is a good chunk of my tuition
"The measure of your life is not what your willing to die for but what your willing to live for"
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Unless you're willing to pay for it, of course :P (scroll to the bottom of that page and see how many are in Toronto alone! :O )
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I didn't realize there was a listing like that. Of course, I know a girl who is an "escort" and her company is listed, just the errr... range of services aren't. ;)
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What are you looking for most specifically?
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although I do have some money being one of those rare students who doesnt drink...but thats how I pay for um...my food and clothing...books are on scholarship so is a good chunk of my tuition
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