Respect and Love ( I'll never understand these modern times)
I understand that someone sometime started the tradition of going out to a strip club and or having a stripper come to you as a final send off into marriage but honestly, shouldn't respect play some sort of factor in a relationship to be willing enough to say no to something like that. It's weird to think that any other time once you are or before you are married most people would have a huge problem with that exact situation but since it's your last day being "single" it's just fine? Honestly none of that makes sense to me. In fact I'd call off the wedding. Hands down, I mean yeah babe tonight lets get married but let a guy rub all over you tonight, no I'm not fine with that. But if you love someone you'd have enough respect for them to not do things that make them angry, and in most cases disgusted with you. And if someone is kind enough to see it in their heart to take you in and give you another chance after you doing something that you know they don't like, stop doing it. That's if you value your relationship. There's no reasonable excuse to do anything that someone you supposedly love would lose respect for you over. No matter who's moving or who's getting married, or who's doing whatever. If it's not something they would be pleased with in an everyday circumstance then be smart enough to know no matter what is said it's not going to be okay. ever. It's all about respect, if you don't have it for the one you're with you'll show it. There's no excuse for doing anything they wouldn't like. If theres any reason behind anything they would prefer that you not do, then don't cut and dry. If you love someone then you'd respect someone, and respecting someone means not doing things that you know they really have a reason not to like. You wouldn't take your vegan friend hunting. You wouldn't make a straight edge kid go to a bar. You shouldn't make your loved one have to deal with a situation of you doing that. And if you like the feeling of what you're doing more than you care about their feelings then end it, for their sake not yours. At least respect them as a PERSON enough to do that. Give it up, nobody needs bad habits. Maybe I was raised differently, but if i was then so were a couple people I know. You should stop doing the things you're doing once you know the other person doesn't like it. Just from a man's prospective it's better to give up something that to make a woman cry over it. Don't toy with people's emotions because it will come back to you.