This Is For All Of You Who Have Been Stood Up In The Past
But mostly for bigfundrew since he deals with all this drama on lj.
[22:12] gladdb: I didn't know you wanted me to
[22:20] PlasmaG7: well that was until you stood me up
[22:21] gladdb: I'm sorry I didn't stand you up on purpose, I took a nap and didn't wake up until too late, I'm sorry :-(
[22:24] gladdb: I don't know what else to tell you, far as I know you were not interested. :-(
[22:25] PlasmaG7: so why did you wait till now to tell me this?
[22:25] PlasmaG7: this something someone my age would try to pull
[22:25] PlasmaG7: i'd thought you'd be more mature than that
[22:26] PlasmaG7: the kid is supposed to stand up to adult not the other way around
[22:26] PlasmaG7: i guess i thought you were worth the effort
[22:27] PlasmaG7: anyway. if you'd like to see me you makes plans. I tried my best
[22:27] gladdb: well I was coming off a double shift
[22:28] gladdb: I showed plenty of interest in you, you showed me you were not interested and was pawning me off someone else
[22:28] gladdb: I'm sorry you misinterpert this as an immaturity thing
[22:28] gladdb: but its not
[22:28] gladdb: it was accidental and I don't call people at 3 am
[22:29] PlasmaG7: i just wanted a message
[22:29] gladdb: and since my impression is you weren't interested I just left it at that
[22:29] PlasmaG7: i mean i know how enticing hooking up on craigslist can be over meeting someone for a drink but all i asked for is something to let me know you weren't going to show
[22:31] PlasmaG7: being interested in someone as a friend and someone to stick their dick in me are two different things
[22:31] gladdb: well again I aplogize
[22:31] gladdb: well I didn't get that impression
[22:31] PlasmaG7: i just got out of a relationship with someone i really cared about , i let you know that i wasn't down with anyhting mroe than meet up with you, to let you know that i was sincere in wanting to get to know you
[22:32] PlasmaG7: cuz you tried to call me out as bullshitting
[22:32] PlasmaG7: so i said hey what the fuck if you think i'm kidding then lets meet up
[22:33] PlasmaG7: and if you didn't want to i'd wish you;d just drop me a message saying "hey i think i might take a nap, i might not show up"
[22:34] gladdb: it wasn't intentioanl, I had every plans to show up
[22:34] gladdb: again sorry you feel this way, I don't know what to do or tell you at this point, you are correct, I am wrong and I guess I missed out a chance in meeting someone nice
[22:34] gladdb: stupid me, my loss
[22:35] PlasmaG7: well at least frank got to witness first hand what the normal protocol is for the gay community
[22:36] gladdb: you know what I am not going to take this bashing for you, you vented
[22:36] PlasmaG7: if you would like to do something in the future, that doesn't involve you sticking your dick in me, (at least in theory) you get in touch with me
[22:36] gladdb: I apologize with an HONEST excuse and yet you think I committed the crime of the centurty
[22:37] gladdb: I didn't have plans of sticking my dick in you, I wanted to get to know you
[22:37] gladdb: however you wanted nothing of the sorts, and wanted me to meet someone else
[22:37] PlasmaG7: then why did you wait to tell me now
[22:37] gladdb: so once you calm donw
[22:37] gladdb: down,
[22:37] PlasmaG7: why not tell me the day after
[22:37] gladdb: and if you are still interested in hanging out etc
[22:38] gladdb: then we'll chat
[22:38] gladdb: with the message you left me*, I was too afraid too, and apparatley rightly so since you just ripped me a new ass hole
[22:39] PlasmaG7: sorry it just blew my mindthat someone who asked me if i was bullshitting him would bull shit me
[22:39] gladdb: look
[22:39] gladdb: I have too much going on to play the games
[22:39] PlasmaG7: i was honestly bewilded, i didn;t think that was possible
[22:39] gladdb: I work a lot so when I make plans to go out I keep it
[22:40] gladdb: sorry for the fluke of lack of sleep catching up to me
[22:40] gladdb: I am not the stick my dick where ever an ass shows up
[22:40] gladdb: I'm tired of that game
[22:40] gladdb: I want to meet people for something more than that
[22:40] gladdb: this is why I don't go to gay places
[22:40] gladdb: the drama involved
[22:41] gladdb: much easier to stay home with the dog and watch a movie or go to a friends house
[22:41] gladdb: so since I didn't go I still get the drama
[22:41] PlasmaG7: ok well for future reference please try and not do that again, you know cuz i took the time to try for you
[22:41] PlasmaG7: and frank thought you died
[22:41] gladdb: felt like I was going to
[22:42] gladdb: but another story
[22:42] PlasmaG7: he's been asking about you all this time and i'm like "look this is what happens dude, you meet someone online and they stand you up, get used to it"
[22:42] PlasmaG7: but he still keeps asking about you
[22:43] PlasmaG7: so i thought i'd try get a hold of you
[22:43] gladdb: well tell him I made one of the biggest mistake in my life and I can't seem to apologize enough for it
[22:44] PlasmaG7: it's ok, i just got stood up by my friend tonight and he ruined my night in the manner you did a few weeks ago, i just finished chewing him out so i'd thought i'd start on you
[22:44] gladdb: gee thanks I'm honored
[22:44] PlasmaG7: i'm not as mad as i sound, i just thought it was silly
[22:44] gladdb: ya silly on my part
* the message was "So, you just didn't show up?"
[22:12] gladdb: I didn't know you wanted me to
[22:20] PlasmaG7: well that was until you stood me up
[22:21] gladdb: I'm sorry I didn't stand you up on purpose, I took a nap and didn't wake up until too late, I'm sorry :-(
[22:24] gladdb: I don't know what else to tell you, far as I know you were not interested. :-(
[22:25] PlasmaG7: so why did you wait till now to tell me this?
[22:25] PlasmaG7: this something someone my age would try to pull
[22:25] PlasmaG7: i'd thought you'd be more mature than that
[22:26] PlasmaG7: the kid is supposed to stand up to adult not the other way around
[22:26] PlasmaG7: i guess i thought you were worth the effort
[22:27] PlasmaG7: anyway. if you'd like to see me you makes plans. I tried my best
[22:27] gladdb: well I was coming off a double shift
[22:28] gladdb: I showed plenty of interest in you, you showed me you were not interested and was pawning me off someone else
[22:28] gladdb: I'm sorry you misinterpert this as an immaturity thing
[22:28] gladdb: but its not
[22:28] gladdb: it was accidental and I don't call people at 3 am
[22:29] PlasmaG7: i just wanted a message
[22:29] gladdb: and since my impression is you weren't interested I just left it at that
[22:29] PlasmaG7: i mean i know how enticing hooking up on craigslist can be over meeting someone for a drink but all i asked for is something to let me know you weren't going to show
[22:31] PlasmaG7: being interested in someone as a friend and someone to stick their dick in me are two different things
[22:31] gladdb: well again I aplogize
[22:31] gladdb: well I didn't get that impression
[22:31] PlasmaG7: i just got out of a relationship with someone i really cared about , i let you know that i wasn't down with anyhting mroe than meet up with you, to let you know that i was sincere in wanting to get to know you
[22:32] PlasmaG7: cuz you tried to call me out as bullshitting
[22:32] PlasmaG7: so i said hey what the fuck if you think i'm kidding then lets meet up
[22:33] PlasmaG7: and if you didn't want to i'd wish you;d just drop me a message saying "hey i think i might take a nap, i might not show up"
[22:34] gladdb: it wasn't intentioanl, I had every plans to show up
[22:34] gladdb: again sorry you feel this way, I don't know what to do or tell you at this point, you are correct, I am wrong and I guess I missed out a chance in meeting someone nice
[22:34] gladdb: stupid me, my loss
[22:35] PlasmaG7: well at least frank got to witness first hand what the normal protocol is for the gay community
[22:36] gladdb: you know what I am not going to take this bashing for you, you vented
[22:36] PlasmaG7: if you would like to do something in the future, that doesn't involve you sticking your dick in me, (at least in theory) you get in touch with me
[22:36] gladdb: I apologize with an HONEST excuse and yet you think I committed the crime of the centurty
[22:37] gladdb: I didn't have plans of sticking my dick in you, I wanted to get to know you
[22:37] gladdb: however you wanted nothing of the sorts, and wanted me to meet someone else
[22:37] PlasmaG7: then why did you wait to tell me now
[22:37] gladdb: so once you calm donw
[22:37] gladdb: down,
[22:37] PlasmaG7: why not tell me the day after
[22:37] gladdb: and if you are still interested in hanging out etc
[22:38] gladdb: then we'll chat
[22:38] gladdb: with the message you left me*, I was too afraid too, and apparatley rightly so since you just ripped me a new ass hole
[22:39] PlasmaG7: sorry it just blew my mindthat someone who asked me if i was bullshitting him would bull shit me
[22:39] gladdb: look
[22:39] gladdb: I have too much going on to play the games
[22:39] PlasmaG7: i was honestly bewilded, i didn;t think that was possible
[22:39] gladdb: I work a lot so when I make plans to go out I keep it
[22:40] gladdb: sorry for the fluke of lack of sleep catching up to me
[22:40] gladdb: I am not the stick my dick where ever an ass shows up
[22:40] gladdb: I'm tired of that game
[22:40] gladdb: I want to meet people for something more than that
[22:40] gladdb: this is why I don't go to gay places
[22:40] gladdb: the drama involved
[22:41] gladdb: much easier to stay home with the dog and watch a movie or go to a friends house
[22:41] gladdb: so since I didn't go I still get the drama
[22:41] PlasmaG7: ok well for future reference please try and not do that again, you know cuz i took the time to try for you
[22:41] PlasmaG7: and frank thought you died
[22:41] gladdb: felt like I was going to
[22:42] gladdb: but another story
[22:42] PlasmaG7: he's been asking about you all this time and i'm like "look this is what happens dude, you meet someone online and they stand you up, get used to it"
[22:42] PlasmaG7: but he still keeps asking about you
[22:43] PlasmaG7: so i thought i'd try get a hold of you
[22:43] gladdb: well tell him I made one of the biggest mistake in my life and I can't seem to apologize enough for it
[22:44] PlasmaG7: it's ok, i just got stood up by my friend tonight and he ruined my night in the manner you did a few weeks ago, i just finished chewing him out so i'd thought i'd start on you
[22:44] gladdb: gee thanks I'm honored
[22:44] PlasmaG7: i'm not as mad as i sound, i just thought it was silly
[22:44] gladdb: ya silly on my part
* the message was "So, you just didn't show up?"