of course, I prefer not to go cosplaying with you anymore aftermath, even because of this I realized that I'm not worthy enough to be on your project. but still I feel honored being invited by your team, thank you to let me joining the team before. but I want to ask you please don't generalized all of indonesian cosplayer, It's kinda rude even I know you're a great cosplayer, honestly I feel offended with th4th. since I thought cosplay is about fun yet you make this really a serious matter. please be wise in every matter. not every indonesian cosplayer is like me. and even our relation should be awkward after this It'll be kind if you be wise enough not to generalized it to any people surround me, since is your friend is mine too. It's not like that I'm always ranting about anything. I respect all of your demand but I want to expect that you can think wiser with all of the problem. I know you can behave since you're my friend, right? I think this is the time I show you my serious side, sorry if this comment is offending you too. bu hey, it's even! what the big problem?
sure!! no prob, doing the normal hangouts thing is the best at all
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it's not that you are notworthy, but i just dont want thing to be awkward like this. if we end up fighting and harrassing and backstabbing each other, why should we continue cosplay anyway? that's why i dont want to go with the other indonesian cosplayer. because i like thing as it is like now. I am just afraid that if we cosplay together, some misunderstanding will happened again, and will ruin the friendship afterward. sorry if my typing offend you, but it was not my intention to say that indonesian cosplayers are bad.
even you type that is not like that or not you intention to be like that but it will be look like that by the other people. may I know what is the thing that make some misunderstanding among us? me? you? our ego? jealousy? our pride? or ONLY our prejudice? Come on, mom. it's the time for us to become a behave person for every matter, we are an adult, right? Whatever I know if I wrong I'll apologize even the subject or you weren't accept it, but I hope for this problem you, me, them and both of us can look wiser. there isn't any right side in your/our cosplay problem, I already accept it, but can you? or can you tell us where is our mistake to make you like this. if you only blaming on us, then tell us directly. It's not like we repeat same mistake? if you only blaming on us then you'll be the one is the backstabber in this matter. cmiiw. It's not for a gain of sympathy, but it's to open up our sprained friendship in this long long time. right? there're no word for late for both of us if we want to learn to behave and learn from our mistakes. Don't be afraid since we all also afraid
tertinggal..boku no bakabakabakakisame_widiJanuary 7 2010, 17:08:45 UTC
Whatever it is that is happening between us does not mean we are allowed to behave any less wise. If you think that there is something you deem wrong, please enlighten me. It’s never about sympathy or pity, but the sprain put on our friendship is getting old, though it’s never too late to fix the situation.
Re: tertinggal..boku no bakabakabakaseraphin_kaeganJanuary 7 2010, 18:00:15 UTC
People in Indonesia who are in my f-list <-- i state it is for my f-list, i never generalize everyone as i only have a few of indonesian in my f-list, and not all of them do cosplay.
secondly, "the unworthy" word really ticked me off. Seriously, do you think that this is about cosplay we are talking about? is this all about appearance? It is not.This is about the attitude. I am hurt that you can think of me that shallow.
I will tell you that i am upset with the hotel problem. That is the problem. Fine. I was my fault that i didn't double check it with everyone again after i got only 4 confirmation of who is going to spend a night there. So i took the responsibility to book another room with Rin. Then after that, you suddenly said you cannot spend a night. Then it was also fine with me, except that my Dad who need to pay first a bit annoyed. so after that i tell shin, and you said you will spend a night. It is also fine by mine. I told her that if you guys don't want to spend a night i am fine by it and we can later split the bill by 5.
This is when the problem lies. You could have at least told us that you are going to leave. I mean, there is a better way if you want to tell me that you have an urgent thing or something. At least give us a call before you left i mean? I am shocked when we found out only after shin called you. I asked her to call because i am worried about you and if you want something to eat later. I frankly said it now that i am very upset about the attitude. Not only me, but Rin also. She told me that she feel like you guys are making fun of her, since she is the one who booked the rooms.
My parents told me that i should just stop cosplaying when i go back and just hang out like other people do. They told me that if everything always end up with something like that, then we should just have a casual hang out like watching movies, or something like that. And I think i will have to agree with that.
I apologized because I was rude with this post, but you must also understand that i am very upset with the whole things that happened in Mulia.
sure!! no prob, doing the normal hangouts thing is the best at all
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Yes, casual hang out can be fun too XD
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hum~~pancious dan waraku de gohan is nice! <3
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secondly, "the unworthy" word really ticked me off. Seriously, do you think that this is about cosplay we are talking about? is this all about appearance? It is not.This is about the attitude. I am hurt that you can think of me that shallow.
I will tell you that i am upset with the hotel problem. That is the problem. Fine. I was my fault that i didn't double check it with everyone again after i got only 4 confirmation of who is going to spend a night there. So i took the responsibility to book another room with Rin. Then after that, you suddenly said you cannot spend a night. Then it was also fine with me, except that my Dad who need to pay first a bit annoyed. so after that i tell shin, and you said you will spend a night. It is also fine by mine. I told her that if you guys don't want to spend a night i am fine by it and we can later split the bill by 5.
This is when the problem lies. You could have at least told us that you are going to leave. I mean, there is a better way if you want to tell me that you have an urgent thing or something. At least give us a call before you left i mean? I am shocked when we found out only after shin called you. I asked her to call because i am worried about you and if you want something to eat later. I frankly said it now that i am very upset about the attitude. Not only me, but Rin also. She told me that she feel like you guys are making fun of her, since she is the one who booked the rooms.
My parents told me that i should just stop cosplaying when i go back and just hang out like other people do. They told me that if everything always end up with something like that, then we should just have a casual hang out like watching movies, or something like that. And I think i will have to agree with that.
I apologized because I was rude with this post, but you must also understand that i am very upset with the whole things that happened in Mulia.
Wai!will take note of that.
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