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7 tips for bdsm practitioners that I wish would filter to the writers
This is a published list written by bdsm practictioners talking about how to make a scene safe and happier
so none of this 50 shades of grey no means yes crap
you know as well as I do my issue with these stories is the usual complete lack of consent that is in them, so here, a non frightening article explaining ways to work with that, there are no adverts for nipple clamps or floggers, no naked men, (although there is a link to another article at the bottom with a man in a hot pink see through thing....) but it's safe for work
bdsm can be a powerful thing between two people done right, done wrong it's just another form of abuse
so let's do it right, girls (and boy)
and look most of the suggestions are simple - talk
This is a published list written by bdsm practictioners talking about how to make a scene safe and happier
so none of this 50 shades of grey no means yes crap
you know as well as I do my issue with these stories is the usual complete lack of consent that is in them, so here, a non frightening article explaining ways to work with that, there are no adverts for nipple clamps or floggers, no naked men, (although there is a link to another article at the bottom with a man in a hot pink see through thing....) but it's safe for work
bdsm can be a powerful thing between two people done right, done wrong it's just another form of abuse
so let's do it right, girls (and boy)
and look most of the suggestions are simple - talk