translation pleeeease?

[seperate_smile]

Well, I can't sleep...I WAS, but then I got a TEXT message from someone (Coooonor lol) Now I'm awake cause I can't stop this evening's text convo with Kevin from running through my head and trying to figure out what exactly it means.

Convo goes as follows:

Kev: What u doin?
Me: I'm hangin out with Jenna. What are you doin?
Kev: Call me when ur done.

Comments

[x_sky_boy_x]

I'll take a stab at this, so please bear with me if it gets confusing.

Your current relationship status with is complex and probably emotionally confusing. You two have broken up and you've moved out but you two are trying to remain friends and still get together to fuck--which is hot, by the way. I'm guessing that inside he's asking: "So why are we broken up wehen spending time together feels so good?"

I'm going to disagree with the comment that he's a man and doesn't care. He wouldn't be angry if he wasn't hurt and he wouldn't be hurt if he didn't care. If he really didn't care it'd be you lashing out at him and him wondering why you're acting all weird instead of just enjoying some hot, no-strings-attached sex.

Contrary to popular belief, men do have emotions, we just don't recognize or interpret them very well and are especially poor at that when we're young. Sometimes it just feels too humiliating to say, 'I still care about you and need you but it feels like you don't need me at all.' Being vulnerable isn't something men do very well and when faced with it we can be jerks. It's a defensive thing.

We're just wired for different things. Call a guy if you need some large animal killed or something torn down. If you want deep insight into a complex emotional issue call a girlfriend. It's not an excuse for acting like jerks, but it is a kind of sort of explanation.

If the fuckbuddy/friend thing with Kevin is important to you, you may have to take the high road a few times and just understand that's its going to be a struggle for him to spend time so intimately--and pleasurably--with you and also know that you're eventually going to move on completely to sharing that with someone else.