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[sensualstraberi]

I don't get it...how come none of the nice guys ever want to be with me? I am such a good gf and I am so nice to my bf's...I don't cheat...I don't lie...I am not overly demanding on their time...normally I work so much I barely have time...I don't bitch if they smoke or drink or hang with their buddies...my god u would think more guys would like me

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[saellipsis]

I'm a big fan of giving advice, despite no qualifications whatsoever, so I figured I might try my hand with this. I think, maybe, one of your problems is being so allowing. If you allow people to do whatever they want and demand nothing of them, a lot of the time they're bound to give nothing back. So be a bit bitchy about things. And be more choose-y in general. You don't need to be with someone at all times. A little time alone can help a lot in letting you know what you want. So, if you're just being nice by allowing stuff like drinking and smoking (and it'd seem so, because you bring it up as a point that makes you a good person to be with) and don't like the behavior, don't go out with boys who do it. Or at least not ones who do it more than you're comfortable with. Look for what you've liked in other guys, look for someone that feels right, and doesn't seem to be some short term fleeting sort of thing. Someone who things don't seem forced with and that seems natural.

Maybe all this stuff is obvious and maybe I'm just taking up precisious space in your comment page, but I think that's all pretty worthwhile advice. And for the record, no, no you are not ugly.

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