Relationship Decisions...
The key to success in the decision of whether to be with someone or not, is to focus your thoughts on what you want, and to believe that that is what you'll get.
This sets up the best sub-conscious energy to help your every day words and actions create in your life what you want.
To instead focus on the choice itself - "should i or shouldn't i? Does he/she love me, or does he/she not?" promotes an energy of insecurity and vulnerability to outside forces. It is more efficient to centre your capabilities on believing and actually achieving what you want.
It's about focusing on getting what you want, rather than wondering what will or has happened.
If you always have a clear intention in the back of your mind, of what you want, then even in the times you are not consciously aware of your desires, you will make the right decisions/actions to bring about your desired result.
A lot of people know this strategy as 'the secret'. What i'm saying is not a revelation, but it is a different interpretation. Sometimes all people need is to see an idea in a different light to understand and embrace the concept.
I'm still working on embracing the concept!