May 01, 2011 19:36
I wonder a lot about the male species. There are two guys I'm talking to. By talking, I mean pre-dating (for those that don't know). Last night (this morning) one asked me if we could chill together sometime. I said, "Sure. When and where?" He said, "You decide."
Maybe it's just me, but if you want to go out with someone, don't you usually tell them where you want to go? I do. I say, "Do you want to go to *blank* with me tomorrow?" If I don't, all my friends yell at me for being indecisive (that happened to me on my birthday).
Well, that's not all. Today, the other guy says, "We should chill together sometime." Almost the EXACT same words. I say, "When and where?"
He says, "It's up to you."
Okay, since when have males become so indecisive? I know females can never make up their minds (being one myself, I understand), but males usually take charge and tell us what to do, whether we want them to or not. Since when have they not been able to make up their minds? I don't like it at all. I like to be told what to do when I'm not sure. Don't ever tell me what not to do; tell me what to do when I don't know.
Maybe I need to find new guys to talk to. I don't know where to look, though. Maybe college will give me new prospects. Hopefully.
human nature,
youth