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theres a few things that i realized since i've been talking to my friend about some problems shes having with other people:
1. if you have a problem with someone, please tell them you have a problem with them instead of sugarcoating shit and acting like nothing is wrong when there OBVIOUSLY is.
2. dont act offended when things dont go your way. no matter how you abstractly present it, just TELL the person thats what you want and maybe it will happen if they like it too. not everyone is a psychic, and noone is $1.99 a minute.
3. and if things do go your way and it IS mutual, please dont fuck it up by not communicating when you want something else to happen.
4. making others feel like shit just because youre angry at them isnt really the best way to deal with your problems.
5. i cannot emphasize communication enough. when people dont do this, nothing gets done and everyone is miserable. mission accomplished bitch.
thats all.
1. if you have a problem with someone, please tell them you have a problem with them instead of sugarcoating shit and acting like nothing is wrong when there OBVIOUSLY is.
2. dont act offended when things dont go your way. no matter how you abstractly present it, just TELL the person thats what you want and maybe it will happen if they like it too. not everyone is a psychic, and noone is $1.99 a minute.
3. and if things do go your way and it IS mutual, please dont fuck it up by not communicating when you want something else to happen.
4. making others feel like shit just because youre angry at them isnt really the best way to deal with your problems.
5. i cannot emphasize communication enough. when people dont do this, nothing gets done and everyone is miserable. mission accomplished bitch.
thats all.