Why?

[semos]

It's funny how certain words make a difference in how you feel even though the end result will never change regardless of the words chosen. It was accident. .... that doesn't sound too bad. He knew what he was doing.... it was intentional…well that's a bit different. Even thought nothing said now will ever make a difference in the outcome. The end result is still bad. The words don’t change what happened but they make a difference in how you perceive or interpret the emotion. It’s like inflection in a voice. It doesn’t change what was said but it seems to change the meaning.
Will why ever be answered?
Shane Costello - November 16, 1984 to December 23, 2011