Manners in Lolita
Ok so I've been thinking about how people act in lolita. Some girls seem to like to act as prim and proper while in lolita as possible, and othrs who seem to believe that while they are dressed all sweet and cutesy, the need to act as loudly and rudely as possible. Perhaps thats is just their honest personallity, or perhaps they are puting on a show to emulate what lolita means for them, who knows.
However I dont agree when girls freak out saying "How dare you not act like a proper lady while dressed in lolita!!!!!!!!!!111!1" Then again nor do i agree with the girls who say "Its just clothes! I do what I want!" For me I was always tought to be polite to strangers and polite to your elders. I was tought good table maners and how to act in public. I was tought there was a time and place for certain behavior. If someone comes up to me out of the blue and is rude to me wheather I am wearing lolita or not, I will try to be polite or ignore it. However if I just happen to have my buttons pushed, you bet your frilly ass I'll let them have it.
I wonder how others think on this subject. Excuse my random rant, I've just been thinking about this since this past Saturday while a girl was saying how it was funny that I was dressed really sweet and cute but I had no problem throwng around a swear word or two, but it made me awesome and a bad ass. Lol.
Also, this weekend was amazing! The mini meet was so much fun and I got to see a lot of people during the weekend which was a nice change. I posted to d_l today. I keep on meaning to post more, but i never remember to take pictures of my outfits! >_
However I dont agree when girls freak out saying "How dare you not act like a proper lady while dressed in lolita!!!!!!!!!!111!1" Then again nor do i agree with the girls who say "Its just clothes! I do what I want!" For me I was always tought to be polite to strangers and polite to your elders. I was tought good table maners and how to act in public. I was tought there was a time and place for certain behavior. If someone comes up to me out of the blue and is rude to me wheather I am wearing lolita or not, I will try to be polite or ignore it. However if I just happen to have my buttons pushed, you bet your frilly ass I'll let them have it.
I wonder how others think on this subject. Excuse my random rant, I've just been thinking about this since this past Saturday while a girl was saying how it was funny that I was dressed really sweet and cute but I had no problem throwng around a swear word or two, but it made me awesome and a bad ass. Lol.
Also, this weekend was amazing! The mini meet was so much fun and I got to see a lot of people during the weekend which was a nice change. I posted to d_l today. I keep on meaning to post more, but i never remember to take pictures of my outfits! >_