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Feb 15, 2006 04:33

My favorite part of Valentines Day was the part where my date/boyfriend Sean decided not to show up, or call, or IM, or LJ, or anything....I hope he doesn't still think he's my boyfriend. What an asshole; Luckily I got to sit and watch Tia Sue drool all over who is soon to be our new Tio I'm sure. Love is in the air....Sean broke my heart.

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hauntednights February 15 2006, 13:25:33 UTC

Ok, make me look like the bad guy if you want. Don't tell people that you didn't make any attempt to call me for nearly a week. That the only LJ comments you made was to my post that was about me being confused about you... because you weren't contacting me. Don't tell them that I showed up at your place after work, like I always do on work days, with champagne and roses... and to have you not there, even though it was Valentine's and we had plans.

Broke your heart? You just threw me away. You totaly took me for granted. Expected me to be there when you wanted, when you weren't there at all for me.

selergrace February 15 2006, 22:30:00 UTC

SEAN...what part of you showed up randomly after I had already left you a message stating that I was not home and I would call you when I got back so that we could spend the evening together. It's not my fault that you are 300 yrs behind the times and don't carry a cell phone. You cannot expect me to magically know that you are coming right after work because we never agreed on that and you have gone home before coming to see me before. My LJ is for MY feelings...not yours. I didn't ask your opinion nor do I want it. You owe me an apology and until I get one you need to shut the fuck and stay off my LJ and out of my space. You're just too chicken shit to admit that you fucked up and fucked me over on Valentines Day.

hauntednights February 15 2006, 22:47:59 UTC

I am sorry that things didn't go well. I am sorry that Valentine's didn't turn out the way it should, though it is not all my fault. But I will admit that I was at fault too.

I do like you. Things just weren't going to work. And I'm sorry for that.

I am going to try to get my stuff from you, hopefuly this Saturday late morning if you are there. I will be in the area. And then if you don't want to talk to me anymore, you don't have to.

selergrace February 16 2006, 01:23:54 UTC

I won't be home Saturday I'm leaving for Idaho on Friday and won't be home until after work on Monday at which point I have plans to go out with my mother.

hauntednights February 16 2006, 01:49:31 UTC

Then I will just have to pick it up after you get back. Maybe a day after work.

selergrace February 16 2006, 23:29:53 UTC

Maybe I never want to see you again :P

hauntednights February 17 2006, 06:00:40 UTC

Well, then you need to send it to me, or have Matthew give it to me if you really don't want to see me. But either way I want to get it back.

selergrace February 21 2006, 18:08:34 UTC

I'm not spending any of my time or money to get you your movie back an neither is Matthew. I find it very funny that still the only you are concerned about is your movie which may I note that I never said that you couldn't have back. If you were around long enough to listen about what happened on V-Day...we had to go back to The Dalles for dinner because the family had asked us to early in the afternoon...we left around 1 and I was waiting to get ahold of you to come back...we actually got home at 7 and I called you a few more times and waited up until 9 for you to show up. I refuse to take any responsibility for this. If there was ever a time that I needed my boyfriend to just respect the space that I needed...I have been so secluded from EVERYONE...it wasn't an attack against you. I've been in a stuper and when I finally come out of it instead of a hug and understanding what I got was "I am going to need my movie back"

hauntednights February 21 2006, 18:31:28 UTC

Well, you also didn't come right out and say what was going on. This is the first that I have heard of it. And the only reason I thought about the movie is it was a gift from Sarah. And she actually spent a lot on it, more than she can really afford, to get it for me for my birthday last year. If it were anything else I wouldn't so much care.

And you could have communicated with me before. You just seemed to go poof to me. I would have understood if you would have just said "You know, I am having some issues. And I need to deal with it on my own for a bit". Thats all I needed.

selergrace February 21 2006, 21:11:35 UTC

**blink** Not only did I tell you that, but I told you that many many times and every time we talked all you talked about was your movie. I don't care how much who spent on it. I never denied that it was yours or for you to come get it. And how am I supposed to communicate with you when the only way to get ahold of you is when you're home and IF you're home and you hardly ever are...or the not so instant responder of livejournal?

hauntednights February 28 2006, 16:22:20 UTC

Actually, one of the first reponses you had was at least you could pawn it. Remember? I didn't figure you would, but still.

And yes, getting ahold of me can be difficult. But getting ahold of you was no easier, even though you did have a cell phone.

Let me know when I can get my movie. I am available currently Friday at any time, because I am taking that day off. Going to a concert with my best friend the day before, so using Friday as a recovery day. So it means I am going to be around most the day. Going to use it to clean most likely. I could also get it around 11:30am-12pm on Saturday since I will be in the area anyway.

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