Apr 13, 2008 17:51
I was messing around on chemistry.com to see how they rate my personality. So I thought I'd share it with you all :) Aren't you so lucky? haha.
You are a NEGOTIATOR/explorer
You are a big thinker. You easily take the large, long view of almost any topic. You are comfortable juggling myriad facts. You tend to synthesize material easily and to think in webs of factors, not straight lines. You are imaginative and enjoy theorizing.
You are also socially savvy. You are good at both talking and listening. And you generally read people's faces, body postures and tone of voice accurately, so you tend to intuitively understand what people want and need.
You are also highly compassionate. You care deeply about others. So you sometimes make personal sacrifices to be a supportive friend or colleague. And you like to work to improve the world.
You enjoy new ideas and novel experiences. You are flexible, affable and open to adventure. And you admire impulsive, spontaneous people, despite your tendency to plan ahead.
You dislike conflict. You seek "win-win" solutions. And with your skill as a negotiator, you adeptly bring peace to the chaotic world around you. You are a warm, insightful and often exciting companion.
Dating Tips for Negotiators
* In the beginning of a relationship, try not to over think the situation or over-react to minor set backs. If there's chemistry and compassion, it will all work out.
* You may be so diplomatic that your potential partner is unclear who you are. Take a chance at being more direct and decisive.
* Rather than waiting for the right moment, interrupt now and then with some of your imaginative and broad-minded ideas; it can lead to sparkling, involved conversation and close companionship.
* Let a potential partner know your boundaries, needs and hopes. This way he or she will be able to act accordingly to deepen the bond.
* Talking is only one form of intimacy. Try doing something side by side with him or her, particularly something new and collaborative.
So what do you guys think? Does it really sounds like me in relationships? To be fair only a few of you really can really comment on this, but I'm curious to see what you guys think.
Also, for a real update. I passed my second term of nursing school with a 96%. Which, in case you didn't know is quite fucking amazing for nursing school. Now I've started my senior rotations, the first one I was lucky enough to fall into is ER/PSYCH/ONCOLOGY. Please try to hold back your jealousy because I can feel it boiling over. I think ER is going to sweet, I mean come on Trauma Level I center, need I say more!? Well, I guess for you non-med kids I should explain that a Level I trauma center is where all the real bad shit ends up. Like the helicopter s land in these places. However, Pysch and oncology are not my things. You all should know why oncology is horrible for me, at least if you know me at all you should. Psych will suck because I'm not a touchy feely person, I just want to dig into the blood and guts not be an overpaid babysitter.
On a more personal note, Ryan and I are no longer together. Which is a long involved story that I don't think needs posted on here. If you're truly that curious you can ask me. But on an up note, Matt and I have found our way back to each other. Which so far has been great, even though we've had our rough times we seem to be on the right track. Who knows what'll happen in the long run, but I'm willing to stick around and find out. :)