A gay man posts
a secret on
fandomsecrets about how he hates that yaoi fangirls fetishize his sexuality, and understandably the entire thing starts wanking faster than a submarine engineer who's gotten on the internet for the first time in a year and a half. I get into it
here and
here for the most part, but pretty much everyone's sharing their thoughts on the matter.
(Warning: Image heavy. For the dialup-gifted, the secret in question is
here.)
My thoughts, highly distilled, are that traditional yaoi isn't fetishizing a sexuality so much as a specific ideal and dynamic, and anyone who thinks that real gay men act like that has a few more problems than the doujinshi on her hard drive. Any thoughts from the audience?