May 13, 2005 22:50
you live, you learn;
you love, you learn;
you cry, you learn;
you lose, you learn;
you bleed, you learn;
you scream, you learn.
you grieve, you learn;
you choke, you learn;
you laugh, you learn;
you choose, you learn;
you pray, you learn;
you ask, you learn;
you live, you learn.
“When we hold a piece of crystal to the light, it paints rainbows on the wall. When we tap it lightly with a spoon, it sings like a bell. But when we drop it, it shatters in colorless, silent pieces on the floor. Human beings, sometimes to our amazement, can be as fragile as glass. It's especially easy to forget what makes people we live with or have known for a long time shine or sing. We take for granted the very qualities that made us love them in the first place. When we forget how to see and hear the people we love, how to appreciate them, we grow careless. Too often, from sheer neglect, the relationship between us grows dull and silent, then slips, falls, and shatters. Paying attention to other people's needs and feelings can prevent this.”
If you care about someone, tell them. Tell them everything how you feel about them. They will feel so great if you do. Tell them everyday how much you mean to them because you can’t guarantee anything….I’ve took for granted a lot of things and people in my life this past 2 years, especially these past 6 months. Too everyone..who's been there for me and stayed true..you know who you all are; thank you so much.
I've made many, many mistakes..kept making them..and now I’ve finally learned. I’m feeling pretty smart that I’ve got all my shit together now. Some of the things I’ve learned..is to not lie. Lieing, is very…very bad. And in the end, the truth is really the best. Another thing is to smile and just being friendly. Saying hi to someone if u see them or smiling at them.. it just makes life more secure; I think. That kinda sounds like I’m a damn hippie…anyway. I also think that if everyone was more open about things, we’d all get a long better. We’re not as different as we all think…everything happens for a reason…
If you ever need a shoulder to cry on..or someone to just sit on the phone and say nothing while you just talk, or to talk to you so you don't have to think about things..call me...anytime...you know i love late night conversations and call you @ 4 in the morning! hehe ;)
I guess I’m in a really weird..contemplative mood. It’s Friday the 13th. =p
♥jess