I can't quit you babe
there is always one person you love who becomes that definition.
it usually happens retrospectively, but it happens eventually. this
is the person who unknowingly sets the template for what you will
always love about other people, even if some of these lovable
qualities are self-destructive and unreasonable. the person
who defines your understanding of love is not inherently different
than anyone else, and they’re often just the person you happen to
meet the first time you really, really, want to love someone. but that
person still wins. they win, and you lose. because for the rest
of your life, they will control how you feel about everyone.