Ugh.
So a person I've been LJ friends with for almost as long as I've even had a livejournal (aka ten years in August), removed me from their flist. deadwillwalk has done this three times now. It's been because we dont have much in common anymore, I don't update enough, or don't comment on their journal enough.
I asked each time why and still wanted to be friends so he added me back.
This last time I apparently didn't say anything within 3 days and so I was summarily banned from his journal, commenting on it and could not even send him a message.
So, now I have absolutely no way to tell him that I didn't remove him within his 3 days because I WAS FUCKING ON VACATION.
All I was going to say in my message to him aside from, hey I was on vacation thanks for banning me, was:
I figure a friendship shouldn't have rules attached to it like this, so if I wasn't following yours then I'm sorry I've displeased you.
Sometimes people get busy or post on other avenues on the internet other than the one on this website. It wasn't some kind of personal affront to you.
This has happened at least 3 times now, the whole removing and adding back song and dance. I guess we both really have changed too much if you're that keen on getting rid of me without so much as a goodbye.
I do wish you the best, and hope you have happiness in your life.
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Ok, I feel better now. I just had to get that out because deadwillwalk was one of around 3 people I've been friends with on LJ since I got an LJ that I am still friends with. Made me kinda sad. Then not even being able to say anything just really irked me.
So...here it is. My lovely petty pointless venting.
I asked each time why and still wanted to be friends so he added me back.
This last time I apparently didn't say anything within 3 days and so I was summarily banned from his journal, commenting on it and could not even send him a message.
So, now I have absolutely no way to tell him that I didn't remove him within his 3 days because I WAS FUCKING ON VACATION.
All I was going to say in my message to him aside from, hey I was on vacation thanks for banning me, was:
I figure a friendship shouldn't have rules attached to it like this, so if I wasn't following yours then I'm sorry I've displeased you.
Sometimes people get busy or post on other avenues on the internet other than the one on this website. It wasn't some kind of personal affront to you.
This has happened at least 3 times now, the whole removing and adding back song and dance. I guess we both really have changed too much if you're that keen on getting rid of me without so much as a goodbye.
I do wish you the best, and hope you have happiness in your life.
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Ok, I feel better now. I just had to get that out because deadwillwalk was one of around 3 people I've been friends with on LJ since I got an LJ that I am still friends with. Made me kinda sad. Then not even being able to say anything just really irked me.
So...here it is. My lovely petty pointless venting.