thoughtful and calm......

Feb 10, 2004 20:09

"its better to have loved, than to have never loved at all..."
i finally found out in english class who wrote this quote and the fact that it was a while back surprised me. y i dont truly know but i found it interesting and always have. i think that this quote is very much tru. because love brings u some of the best and most fond memories, even if it doesnt turn out for the best. needless to say there will be pain, there will b tears, there will b anguish and anger over a broken heart, but at least, the feeling of love wouldnt be a stranger to ones heart, and although at the moment of pain on feels that it was best to have never crossed paths, then one wouldnt know how to handle the next relationship constituting the next person the "first love" and the process repeats itself all over again in a never ending cycle. my theory is that a person only needs two loves in their life. the first to show them the meaning of the word, and the second to make it work. its rare that a person gets to keep their first love, and to all of those who have done so, i commend you, but for the rest of us, al we can do is explore and c if we can find that someone whom we think is our perfect match to even us up and make us feel like the king/queen that we deserve to feel like. i truthfully don't know y im writing this, or rather, i dont know y im sharing this, but it was a thought that hit my head earlier today while reading the excerpt, and i realized that at times i do feel very much lonely for i dont have a person to kiss and hold, squeeze nor cherish, but i am not one to dwell on what is not there, rather concentrate on what is. im by far not a negative person, but rather a factual one that will accept defeat if beaten, and defeat the foe if triumphant. im by no means a quitter, but lines have to be drawn and this can be summed into another one of the usual struggles of man vs. beast, man vs. man, etc. anywayz, let me bounce, just a thought...
ltrZ
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