fridae profile leandude ---> scorpiojerm
never thought my first Fridae profile wud stay with me for so long or that Fridae wud become an integral extension of a gay asian man. If you ask most gay men what their daily internet habits include ....most will say. check fridae, check livejournal/blog, check email, chat on MSN
pleasure factors in as a huge need for satisfaction when gay men are younger so the search for that seemed to have a heavy influence on things one did outside of work. my thoughts when i created my Fridae account way back when Fridae first started was a catchy handle that made cruising easier.
to be honest ... i've hardly picked up from Fridae coz most people you meet there are a little scary. it seemed to be more a place you searched for someone you saw at a party ... link would be through mutual frens or people you saw him hanging out with. then the norm was to send each other hearts ... then emails .. then see what happens next
guess i've grown up a lot through the years and i've decided its time to abandon this "shallow" handle
i never do much with my Fridae account anymore anyway and when you're past 35 .... trying to stay lean is an effort. so in anticipation of "lean"ness becoming elusive and becoming too old to be called "dude" ... i've abandoned leandude and decide to use my LJ profile as my Fridae profile
just a notice to frens and people who know me as leandude or who've added me as frens on Fridae .... i'll stop using this in about 60 days ...once my perks expires
:-)
pleasure factors in as a huge need for satisfaction when gay men are younger so the search for that seemed to have a heavy influence on things one did outside of work. my thoughts when i created my Fridae account way back when Fridae first started was a catchy handle that made cruising easier.
to be honest ... i've hardly picked up from Fridae coz most people you meet there are a little scary. it seemed to be more a place you searched for someone you saw at a party ... link would be through mutual frens or people you saw him hanging out with. then the norm was to send each other hearts ... then emails .. then see what happens next
guess i've grown up a lot through the years and i've decided its time to abandon this "shallow" handle
i never do much with my Fridae account anymore anyway and when you're past 35 .... trying to stay lean is an effort. so in anticipation of "lean"ness becoming elusive and becoming too old to be called "dude" ... i've abandoned leandude and decide to use my LJ profile as my Fridae profile
just a notice to frens and people who know me as leandude or who've added me as frens on Fridae .... i'll stop using this in about 60 days ...once my perks expires
:-)