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[scootersaurus]

Is it shallow of me, when looking at online personals, to only look at and respond to ads with photos? I'm not talking a backstage (photos I can only look at when they give me permission) either, but a photo up front that I can look at before opening up a profile

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[shuripentu]

Anyone can become physically attractive once you're mentally attracted to them.

[unsomnambulist]

Agreed. :)

[orts]

Totally cliche, totally true. Also the reverse.

[scootersaurus]

Ehhhh, I don't really buy that. If that was the case, the stereotypical "nice guy/girl" wouldn't exist, and there wouldn't be so many bad relationships that people are determined to "make work". :P

To me if something happens between two people then there was a physical attraction between them. It might not have been apparent at first, but it is there none the less to help draw them to each other.

[malvino]

I'm not convinced.

[orts]

I've experienced it... both it and the reverse... Sometimes waxing and waning in the same relationship :)

[malvino]

Well, maybe I'm shallow :)