stolen post....but it hit me in the right spot
How true is this. My particular favorite is: "They say it takes minutes to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them." It's strange that no matter how much someone hurts you -- you can still, after a time, look at them in a fond and loving light. Now...enjoy:)
If someone wants you, nothing will keep them away.
If they don't want you, nothing will make them stay.
Stop making excuses for their behavior.
Allow your intuition to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that wasn't meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for someone else until you truly find what makes YOU happy.
If a relationship ends because the other person was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't be friends.
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like they are stringing you along, they probably are.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better," you'll be mad at yourself a year later when things have not changed.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Always have your own set of friends, seperate from your partner.
Maintain boundaries in how someone treats you.
If something is bothering you, speak up.
Never let that person know everything, they will use it against you later.
You cannot change someone's behavior, change comes from within.
Don't ever make them feel like they are more important than you are.
We are all human, nothing more, nothing less.
Never let someone define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's "someone."
If they cheated with you, they'll cheat ON you.
A person will only treat you the way you allow them to treat you.
You should not be the one doing all the bending, compromise is a two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships, there is nothing cute about baggage.
Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to complete you.
A healthy relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals.
Look for someone complementary, not supplementary.
Make them miss you sometimes.
Don't fully commit to anyone who doesn't give you everything you need.
They say it takes minutes to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
Share this with others...you'll make someone smile, another rethink their choices, and another prepared.
If someone wants you, nothing will keep them away.
If they don't want you, nothing will make them stay.
Stop making excuses for their behavior.
Allow your intuition to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that wasn't meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for someone else until you truly find what makes YOU happy.
If a relationship ends because the other person was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't be friends.
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like they are stringing you along, they probably are.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better," you'll be mad at yourself a year later when things have not changed.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Always have your own set of friends, seperate from your partner.
Maintain boundaries in how someone treats you.
If something is bothering you, speak up.
Never let that person know everything, they will use it against you later.
You cannot change someone's behavior, change comes from within.
Don't ever make them feel like they are more important than you are.
We are all human, nothing more, nothing less.
Never let someone define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's "someone."
If they cheated with you, they'll cheat ON you.
A person will only treat you the way you allow them to treat you.
You should not be the one doing all the bending, compromise is a two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships, there is nothing cute about baggage.
Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to complete you.
A healthy relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals.
Look for someone complementary, not supplementary.
Make them miss you sometimes.
Don't fully commit to anyone who doesn't give you everything you need.
They say it takes minutes to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
Share this with others...you'll make someone smile, another rethink their choices, and another prepared.