Desperate is not a sexual preference.
We all have standards, even if all it is is: Well, they don't hate me. Tell me what the measuring stick is that you hold those you are romantically interested in by. The shallow (Eyes, teeth, ass), the deep and everything in between. There's no judgment from me.
What makes someone datable?
What makes someone datable?
I love eyes and arms. Strong arms to hold me are a huge plus, and beautiful eyes are just gorgeous. Also, know how to kiss me for the love of god. That's almost a deal breaker right there. If I can't enjoy being in those strong arms looking into those beautiful eyes because the kiss sucked, we have a problem. (shallow as hell) I am however will to work on this issue as it is easily remedied.
The Deep:
I need intelligence. I can not date anyone that I have no respect for intellectually. It just doesn't happen. If I can't have a conversation that revolves around something like books or bizzaro ideas it's not gonna work. I also want someone who can make me laugh and bring me down a notch. Accept me as I am. I know I'm difficult, I know I'm stubborn, I know I can be a royal pain in the ass with all of my faults. If you're willing to work with me, I'm willing to work with you. (I kind of think that last one made no sense, but go with it.)
The everything in between:
While I want intelligence, I also want someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously. I need to be able to laugh with them over stupid things that either one of us has done. I know that I'm an arrogant fuckwit at times and it's good to be called on that. Communication!! If you can't articulate your problems with me well.. yea.. we have a problem.
I fully know there is more but those are the basics: eyes, arms, intelligence, silliness, and blutness and communcation.
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