Her and Craziness
Ok, I know I do not write on here that often. Im usually one to keep things to myself. Im just having a hard time with Her walking out and leaving and not talking to anyone.
This is not the first time that I have had a really good friend who I thought was normal and did a lot of things together. I do not make friends with women that often because I do not like to deal with the Drama and all of the other issues. I take pride in calling someone a really good friend. I digress. Like I said this has happened to me in the past where I was in their wedding and stood by them. It was like you knew them and all of a sudden something in their brain snaps and they need to go and do crazy things and break up with a very caring man. All of the things that you know about this person seems like they were playing everyone to the max and that this is what their true self is and do not care of the chaos that they are causing.
When I found out that She was leaving behind everything that she work so hard to have. I was in shock. Looking from the outside there seemed to be nothing wrong. She said she loved her husband and he was number one in her life. She had no fear of ever not needing anything. Her husband loved her back and would do anything for her. If she waited 10 months she could of pursued her Dreams and he would of been there to follow her thru them. I do not get the fact that she let some man influence her to run away from everything good in her life and leave a network of friends and family to go after a pipe dream. She now will not have any income coming in and she will be on the street fending for her self with some loser who does not work.
Do I feel bad for her or care that she did this? I Do not. She is not the same person who I let into my social circle where for me is hard to let someone in, in the first place. Am I numb? Yes I am, because of all of the people in my social circle I would of never thought that She would be this flighty and throw everything away for someone who is not going to give a damn about her. Who is a piece of work. Who cannot take care of any of the 7 children that he has. I could keep going but IM not going to.
This being said. I know that I cannot fix it or make her come to her senses. I would love to be able to wave a magic wand and fix it and have things go back to the way they were a year ago. But alas we do not live in a world where we can do that.
This is not the first time that I have had a really good friend who I thought was normal and did a lot of things together. I do not make friends with women that often because I do not like to deal with the Drama and all of the other issues. I take pride in calling someone a really good friend. I digress. Like I said this has happened to me in the past where I was in their wedding and stood by them. It was like you knew them and all of a sudden something in their brain snaps and they need to go and do crazy things and break up with a very caring man. All of the things that you know about this person seems like they were playing everyone to the max and that this is what their true self is and do not care of the chaos that they are causing.
When I found out that She was leaving behind everything that she work so hard to have. I was in shock. Looking from the outside there seemed to be nothing wrong. She said she loved her husband and he was number one in her life. She had no fear of ever not needing anything. Her husband loved her back and would do anything for her. If she waited 10 months she could of pursued her Dreams and he would of been there to follow her thru them. I do not get the fact that she let some man influence her to run away from everything good in her life and leave a network of friends and family to go after a pipe dream. She now will not have any income coming in and she will be on the street fending for her self with some loser who does not work.
Do I feel bad for her or care that she did this? I Do not. She is not the same person who I let into my social circle where for me is hard to let someone in, in the first place. Am I numb? Yes I am, because of all of the people in my social circle I would of never thought that She would be this flighty and throw everything away for someone who is not going to give a damn about her. Who is a piece of work. Who cannot take care of any of the 7 children that he has. I could keep going but IM not going to.
This being said. I know that I cannot fix it or make her come to her senses. I would love to be able to wave a magic wand and fix it and have things go back to the way they were a year ago. But alas we do not live in a world where we can do that.