I think fandom is divided into TWO GROUPS. A. people who can talk reasonably and B. people who have to threaten people to say anything. WHY?!?!?!?!?!?!
I've done some research and it says that people need better role models, so I'm going to give you some.
Marui-kun (
gimmegum):
-AWESOME *_____*
-good at volleys
-can do a REALLY AWESOME SHOT CALLED TIGHT-ROPING WALKING
-eats a lot
Atobe (
bigi_my_yoina):
-AWESOME *____*
-good at everything
-wears lots of purple shirts
-talks about himself a lot
IN CONCLUSION, try to be more like these people and then maybe you can stop sucking so much.