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We were friends for years. What did really happen? I do not know.
The start point. He married a friend of swan. The fact that we put them up sure does not make this any easier. We helped get them together, and we deserve no better than this? I understand that people grow apart. Friends I have had, I have no contact with now as we just have lost touch, i am not angry about this. But when her attempt to "reach out" to swandog resuled in her lashing out at swandog, calling her names, calling her a liar, i asked him, what is going on? No response...
Then the really bad thing happened. She posted the chatlog to lj, keeping it private to her friendslist so we would not see it. Telling even more lies behind er back, to our common friends. I wrote him and asked, what the hell is going on? Do they want to turn our friends against us? Not only did she call swan a liar, she lied about what swan had done and said. But the one that had been my good friend for so long did not seem to feel we deserved a response.
Then after this, we heard nothing. It just was nagging. What futher lies was told behind our back? Then came a christmas card... First, lash out at us, then backtalk us to our friends, ignore us, then send us a christmas card! What now? I tried. I wrote again. No response.
"you guys should talk and resolve this",a mutural friend said. Now, that is easy when all we say is ignored. This was my friend. We shared apartmedt, we had so many great times together. And now, i do not even deserve a simple response.
This would never have been posted, had she not posted that chatlog to lj. But i will keep this open, so they can read. I can pinpoint the lies for them if they want to. Swan has issues, i have issues, everyone has issues. But i think that everyone that knows swan well, know that a LIAR is not something she is. I asked my friend. He knew swan very well. Can he believe swan would lie?
No response was given.
You were a great guy. Who are you now?
The start point. He married a friend of swan. The fact that we put them up sure does not make this any easier. We helped get them together, and we deserve no better than this? I understand that people grow apart. Friends I have had, I have no contact with now as we just have lost touch, i am not angry about this. But when her attempt to "reach out" to swandog resuled in her lashing out at swandog, calling her names, calling her a liar, i asked him, what is going on? No response...
Then the really bad thing happened. She posted the chatlog to lj, keeping it private to her friendslist so we would not see it. Telling even more lies behind er back, to our common friends. I wrote him and asked, what the hell is going on? Do they want to turn our friends against us? Not only did she call swan a liar, she lied about what swan had done and said. But the one that had been my good friend for so long did not seem to feel we deserved a response.
Then after this, we heard nothing. It just was nagging. What futher lies was told behind our back? Then came a christmas card... First, lash out at us, then backtalk us to our friends, ignore us, then send us a christmas card! What now? I tried. I wrote again. No response.
"you guys should talk and resolve this",a mutural friend said. Now, that is easy when all we say is ignored. This was my friend. We shared apartmedt, we had so many great times together. And now, i do not even deserve a simple response.
This would never have been posted, had she not posted that chatlog to lj. But i will keep this open, so they can read. I can pinpoint the lies for them if they want to. Swan has issues, i have issues, everyone has issues. But i think that everyone that knows swan well, know that a LIAR is not something she is. I asked my friend. He knew swan very well. Can he believe swan would lie?
No response was given.
You were a great guy. Who are you now?