Oct 05, 2005 20:32
when a guy is into you, he lets you know it, he calls, he shows up, he wants to meet your friends, he cant keep his eyes or hands of you,...
you derserve to have a great relationship..
dont waste the pretty..
if you feel hes always holding some thing back, or that youre spending a lot of energy trying to change yourself into something you think will make him happier, then seperate yourself from him and move on. dont let him make you feel stupid about warning to feel loved..
hes just not that into you if hes breaking up with you. i just dont wanna go out with you means just that...
everyone wants to be loved or needed, particularly by the person who just broke up with us...
dont be flattered that he misses you , he should miss you, hes still the same person who just broke up with you. the only reason he can miss you is because hes choosing every day not to be with you...
this is what a guy is doing during a break. hes sniffing around for something better, and when he doesnt find it, he gets lonely and comes home, its not that hes so into you. its that hes so not into being alone..
a guy says he doesnt want to be with you. sometimes that guy realizes hes made the biggest mistake of hs life. and then sometimes he doesnt. either way.. either way, your only job is to move on with your life..
breakups are supposed to be just that . breaks. hard clean breaks. no talking no seeing no toutching.. the relationship is over..
cut him off.. let him miss you..
theres a guy out there whos going to be really happy that you didnt get back together with your crappy ex- boyfriend
the reason its so painful when someone dissapears is you have to face the fact that the person you loved had probably left you a long time before he grabbed his coat and scrammed..
dont ask yourself what you did wrong or what you could have done dofferently. dont waste your valuble heart and mind trying to figure out why he did what he did. or thinking back on all the things hes said, and wondering what was the truth and what was the lie. the only thing you need to kno is that its really good news.. hes gone...
dont give him the chance to reject you again..
it feels really noble and romantic and dramatic to be filled with longing and heartache, knowing the man you love, for what ever reason cant be yours right now. and your willing to wait for him, because your feelings for him are so very large and pprofound. if youre really comfortable with that, too, and nothing that your friends can saywill help you change that.. then eventually i hope , like me, youll eventually just get tired of it...
your not easily forgotten. let him find you whne hes ready..
forget about him and his good qualities. even forget about his bad ones. forget about alll his excuses and what he promosis. ask yourself one questiononly: is he making you happy?
i will not spend my precious time with a man who has already rejected me.