Feb 13, 2004 21:41
*Here's the recurring pattern you may see in your relationships: A longing to recapture someone or something that can reconnect you to a time in your life when love was a larger focus.
Whether you do it consciously or not, most people who migrate towards the "Second Chances" pattern either want to revise a past decision, confront someone they couldn't at the time, or revert back to a specific point in time.*
Here's something one of my friends told me today that made perfect sense......(I'm the squiggly line thingy and he's the little star thingy)
~you remember that one duet from aladdin you guys played at the crab feed?
*yeah
~well me and cody were crying when you guys played that for some reason
~it was just so pretty
*cuz you want a guy and that song reminds you of how wonderful you can feel when you've got one....at least it does for me (except a girl for me)
~ur really smart
~i never thought of that
~see i told you you're really smart
*" i can show you the world, take you wonder by wonder" you feel like you are flying on a magic carpet when you're in love
Wow. Very profound. Yet perfectly clear. Finally.