Sex
Yesterday i realized that i have, over the years, learned to equate sex with detachment. All the trauma i've experience with people i dared to get close to has left me with a bit of relationship PTSD. This is also the era in which you have to check peoples' references. You can't just believe what someone says about their life. I've been lied to. Or at least presented with claims without evidence.
This is problematic when you are finally with someone amazing who equates sex with love. Someone who is who they say that are. Who has done the things they say they've done in their life and provides evidence.
But we're doing ok.
This is problematic when you are finally with someone amazing who equates sex with love. Someone who is who they say that are. Who has done the things they say they've done in their life and provides evidence.
But we're doing ok.