Shuffling around the same old thoughts
That's what I've been doing lately, in a lot of ways, about a lot of situations in my life. One of them has been my f-list. I've felt like paring it down for a while now, but I don't want to hurt people's feelings or make a firm decision, so I waffle and come back later, thinking the same thoughts and taking no actions. And if I had all the wasted time back from all this thought shuffling, well, I'd have a lot more free time :).
So, my first official paring down of the friends' list. Most of you are staying. Some that were added but did not add me back and there's no connection whatsoever*, some friends have not updated in months and I'd rather wish them well and separate and stop worrying about them when I can't even contact them to find out how they are (yeah, I care about people too much. It's a gift, it's a curse), and some who I just feel I have gone a separate way from. Good luck to all of you!
*I add people, sometimes impulsively. Generally with great success: I've met some of my favorite people that way :). Sometimes, I still like keeping people on my list if they have public posts of interest, and I still feel a connection. But sometimes...either they completely friends' lock, or never really let me in...eh. Either way, it's just time to let go.
So, minimal drama here :). I wish you all well, and If you actually mind that you were cut, feel free to comment below(replies will be screened). And if you have not been cut, no need to comment, unless you just want to say something in a screened comment.
So, my first official paring down of the friends' list. Most of you are staying. Some that were added but did not add me back and there's no connection whatsoever*, some friends have not updated in months and I'd rather wish them well and separate and stop worrying about them when I can't even contact them to find out how they are (yeah, I care about people too much. It's a gift, it's a curse), and some who I just feel I have gone a separate way from. Good luck to all of you!
*I add people, sometimes impulsively. Generally with great success: I've met some of my favorite people that way :). Sometimes, I still like keeping people on my list if they have public posts of interest, and I still feel a connection. But sometimes...either they completely friends' lock, or never really let me in...eh. Either way, it's just time to let go.
So, minimal drama here :). I wish you all well, and If you actually mind that you were cut, feel free to comment below(replies will be screened). And if you have not been cut, no need to comment, unless you just want to say something in a screened comment.