No, that's fair. And god knows I personally don't think someone buying me a drink entitles them to my time, and have been known not to talk to people who have bought me drinks.
But, you know, it's a gamble, I suppose. And like gambling, the money is not necessarily going to net you anything, but the thrill is in trying.
Personally I prefer your strategy of just wandering up to people and starting random conversations ... and then if there's a romantic spark or chemistry or something, then you can see where that goes. Why the pressure to flirt before you even know if you like someone? But I suppose that would be less effective as a hookup strategy. And ... oops, I think I here Barney Stinson laughing at me somewhere.
It's a different approach than I'm used to. My approach rarely works for making out with people (note: though it has) and not what I usually do at bars, where I go with my friends for the purpose of hanging out with said friends.
But I suppose I could make more of an effort either way to talk to strangers at bars, if only to get over my nervousness of doing so.
(I'm so fun, right?)
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But, you know, it's a gamble, I suppose. And like gambling, the money is not necessarily going to net you anything, but the thrill is in trying.
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Trying new things is always awesome, though.
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But I suppose I could make more of an effort either way to talk to strangers at bars, if only to get over my nervousness of doing so.
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