Take your own advice, why dont' ya?
"It is so hard not to let boy situations weigh down on every other aspect of our lives.
As for things feeling one sided, I don't know if there will ever be a time when we don't feel that way. We give and try and worry and hope, and seemingly never get back as much as we put into it.
How long to we take that?
Putting up with less than what is acceptable, just to not feel a l o n e...?
We deserve more than that.
If there is any from-the-heart advice I can offer you, it is this:
Try, as hard as you can, to focus on yourself. Pamper yourself in whatever small ways that you can. Surround yourself by the love of your friends and give yourself credit for being the amazing, talented, and successful person that you are. You and I dont need boys to justify how awesome that we are-- and as much as we feel like our worlds will come crashing down around us without them... ultimately, we are much stronger than that.
I love you so much and I really really do understand how easy it is to feel overwhelmed by relationships, your environment, a city that doesn't feel like your home, friends that seem insincere and flakey, having no money, struggling to know what to do- when to do it- and how.
All we can really do is try to stay positive and redirect our focus and efforts to things that make us feel happy and appreciated.
You are beautiful and amazing and smart and awesome, and sooo many people love you, and care about you, and miss you!
All of the x's and o's to you my darling friend."
As for things feeling one sided, I don't know if there will ever be a time when we don't feel that way. We give and try and worry and hope, and seemingly never get back as much as we put into it.
How long to we take that?
Putting up with less than what is acceptable, just to not feel a l o n e...?
We deserve more than that.
If there is any from-the-heart advice I can offer you, it is this:
Try, as hard as you can, to focus on yourself. Pamper yourself in whatever small ways that you can. Surround yourself by the love of your friends and give yourself credit for being the amazing, talented, and successful person that you are. You and I dont need boys to justify how awesome that we are-- and as much as we feel like our worlds will come crashing down around us without them... ultimately, we are much stronger than that.
I love you so much and I really really do understand how easy it is to feel overwhelmed by relationships, your environment, a city that doesn't feel like your home, friends that seem insincere and flakey, having no money, struggling to know what to do- when to do it- and how.
All we can really do is try to stay positive and redirect our focus and efforts to things that make us feel happy and appreciated.
You are beautiful and amazing and smart and awesome, and sooo many people love you, and care about you, and miss you!
All of the x's and o's to you my darling friend."