(no subject)
Jesse has taken off to Kitchener for the weekend (coming back Sunday), leaving me with a list on the table of things I need to do, and having to fend for myself.
Since I'm usually out of the house, and he use to spend his time home on disability, he usually takes care of abut 90% of the housework. He's left me with this list and I feel like I'm his kid or something, being instructed to take upon these activities while he is gone. (It is true, I often feel like we have a father daughter relationship and not an actual partnership, and I realize that this is going to blow up in our faces at some point in the future). Not sure if I should be insulted or not, since he assumes that I have forgotten how to do things perhaps... but I can't see much of the list being accomplished anyway given our completely different philosophies on house work which I guess says a lot. heh.
First thing I need to accomplish is to go to the grocery store and purchase 3 things - TP, something to eat and a carton of milk. Its 4:30 and I am still debating it... I'm finding myself instead thinking if there's any possible way I can just spend the weekend without these items, and then last the holiday on top of that. hmm. ..
I really should be less lazy about this, and just go out and do it.
I think I might live off of cereal this weekend.
Actually, I have re-evaluated the list and the only thing I don't want to do is the fucking laundry. Maybe I will clean the kitchen and the bathroom or something instead, and then I won't have to feel so guilty about conveniently forgetting about it. Oh and I'll pre-sort it too, just not throw it in the machine.
(I have never stepped foot in our basement, where the laundry facilities are. I think I have some irrational fear of going down there - not for the bugs or the small dark spaces, I just don't want to run into my neighbors in a laundry-related situation)
Does anybody want to come over and have delivery from mandarin?
Since I'm usually out of the house, and he use to spend his time home on disability, he usually takes care of abut 90% of the housework. He's left me with this list and I feel like I'm his kid or something, being instructed to take upon these activities while he is gone. (It is true, I often feel like we have a father daughter relationship and not an actual partnership, and I realize that this is going to blow up in our faces at some point in the future). Not sure if I should be insulted or not, since he assumes that I have forgotten how to do things perhaps... but I can't see much of the list being accomplished anyway given our completely different philosophies on house work which I guess says a lot. heh.
First thing I need to accomplish is to go to the grocery store and purchase 3 things - TP, something to eat and a carton of milk. Its 4:30 and I am still debating it... I'm finding myself instead thinking if there's any possible way I can just spend the weekend without these items, and then last the holiday on top of that. hmm. ..
I really should be less lazy about this, and just go out and do it.
I think I might live off of cereal this weekend.
Actually, I have re-evaluated the list and the only thing I don't want to do is the fucking laundry. Maybe I will clean the kitchen and the bathroom or something instead, and then I won't have to feel so guilty about conveniently forgetting about it. Oh and I'll pre-sort it too, just not throw it in the machine.
(I have never stepped foot in our basement, where the laundry facilities are. I think I have some irrational fear of going down there - not for the bugs or the small dark spaces, I just don't want to run into my neighbors in a laundry-related situation)
Does anybody want to come over and have delivery from mandarin?