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It’s been a slow week from a purely sexual standpoint; a little too slow for my tastes. However, I think the business of life can so easily get in the way of meaningful physical contact. I try very hard to not hold grudges. Heck, some would say I don’t hold a grudge any longer than a few hours, but lately I’ve had a much easier time carrying grudges, especially with people who are close. Not sure what’s up… But I’m definitely holding a grudge with my wife right now and it is too much like being a woman… “Everything OK” my wife asks, “I’m fine,” I say in return, when I’m anything but fine.
This journal was setup to explore in writing what has been happening in my life from a sexual side, and has been an outlet as well. I had never intended for this space to become a place to complain, bitch, moan, or just plain be morose, so for those of you who keep an eye on this space, I’m sorry for my mental ramblings of late. Unfortunately, in some ways, things got “interesting” not too long after starting this journal. The flip side is that this space gives me an opportunity to just write.
Right now my journal is completely open. Some have suggested I go to Friends only as a protection since I talk about sex. I think of my kids on LJ and would want them protected from the same things that I cover so openly, yet, I also hate the single entry that says friends only and I have to go through hoops just to find out I didn’t want to read about the person anyways… bah. So I have a question… Should I make it friends only? If so, should I split the list to those that want to read just the fun stuff and those that want to read the rambling thoughts of a guy who sometimes does more introspective soul searching than appears to be good for himself? I’m really curious what people want, not so much to please you… but so that those that read my journal can get the most out of it, what ever that may be. Something to think about… The content that is very sexually explicit tends to be cross posted to the appropriate communities (
analplay,
2_much_sex_info, and
sexjournals) so if you are a member there, then those types of stories are just repeats on my own journal.
Hopefully, enough of you will respond so that I know the best way to go further.
This journal was setup to explore in writing what has been happening in my life from a sexual side, and has been an outlet as well. I had never intended for this space to become a place to complain, bitch, moan, or just plain be morose, so for those of you who keep an eye on this space, I’m sorry for my mental ramblings of late. Unfortunately, in some ways, things got “interesting” not too long after starting this journal. The flip side is that this space gives me an opportunity to just write.
Right now my journal is completely open. Some have suggested I go to Friends only as a protection since I talk about sex. I think of my kids on LJ and would want them protected from the same things that I cover so openly, yet, I also hate the single entry that says friends only and I have to go through hoops just to find out I didn’t want to read about the person anyways… bah. So I have a question… Should I make it friends only? If so, should I split the list to those that want to read just the fun stuff and those that want to read the rambling thoughts of a guy who sometimes does more introspective soul searching than appears to be good for himself? I’m really curious what people want, not so much to please you… but so that those that read my journal can get the most out of it, what ever that may be. Something to think about… The content that is very sexually explicit tends to be cross posted to the appropriate communities (
analplay,
2_much_sex_info, and
sexjournals) so if you are a member there, then those types of stories are just repeats on my own journal.
Hopefully, enough of you will respond so that I know the best way to go further.