don't need an answer
So I'm not putting this up to ask for answers, mostly so that people can think about it in their own lives. Today in Tae Kwon Do, someone brought up an anecdote. They were listening to a speaker blah blah blah marriage counselor asks the man in this couple "How do you know when you know that your wife cares for you?" I've been talking to some people, and they're having trouble answering that question. Partially because I'm not married to most of them, but even a rephrased version of the question is difficult for some. Go and ask people, "What is it that I do that makes you feel cared for?" Or at the very least think about it in regards to your own life. What is it that makes the people you appreciate special. What is it that they do? Of course you can appreciate people for who they are and all that jazz, but what is it that they do, that's special to them?