Most of my solutions to problems involve violence.
I'm pretty sure I could think of plenty of fun ways to help you out here using violence too.
However, for the novelty value I'll try cold hearted rationality and pragmatism this time. We can always fall back on violence later if it does not work out or is not exciting enough.
If someone is so quick to leave you that something like that will push them over the edge you have probably not lost anything worth worrying about anyway. It's a bit harsh but in general it works.
That being said, I don't like people and am happy when they all leave me alone so maybe I'm not the best to be taking this kind of advice from.
rofl you're always there with the violence when i need it.
basically, i think what is upsetting me the most out of all of this, is that this person's reaction seems completely out of character to me. The complete lack of contact or reply to my emails, that's what's got me all weirded out. She isn't afraid of confrontation and she is okay with telling me when she thinks i've messed up, so the lack of any kind of explanation at this point is really odd to me.
i dunno. i won't say that her friendship isn't worth all of this because i've never had many close girl friends that i really confided in, but she was one of the handful.
Even in doing this, she's still teaching me how to deal with life in a better way and so I guess that's the silver lining.
You have done what you can do and stressing and worrying will not help at all and is just going to make you miserable. As such, forget about it until something happens (or doesn't) and there is something else you can do about it. Worrying about things beyond your control will just make you miserable with no possible gain for it.
This obviously comes with my usual disclaimer: Wisdom is all well and good but violence is always better and will solve any problem provided you use enough of it.
I'm pretty sure I could think of plenty of fun ways to help you out here using violence too.
However, for the novelty value I'll try cold hearted rationality and pragmatism this time. We can always fall back on violence later if it does not work out or is not exciting enough.
If someone is so quick to leave you that something like that will push them over the edge you have probably not lost anything worth worrying about anyway. It's a bit harsh but in general it works.
That being said, I don't like people and am happy when they all leave me alone so maybe I'm not the best to be taking this kind of advice from.
Oh well, back to violence again I guess.
xoxo
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basically, i think what is upsetting me the most out of all of this, is that this person's reaction seems completely out of character to me. The complete lack of contact or reply to my emails, that's what's got me all weirded out. She isn't afraid of confrontation and she is okay with telling me when she thinks i've messed up, so the lack of any kind of explanation at this point is really odd to me.
i dunno. i won't say that her friendship isn't worth all of this because i've never had many close girl friends that i really confided in, but she was one of the handful.
Even in doing this, she's still teaching me how to deal with life in a better way and so I guess that's the silver lining.
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You have done what you can do and stressing and worrying will not help at all and is just going to make you miserable. As such, forget about it until something happens (or doesn't) and there is something else you can do about it. Worrying about things beyond your control will just make you miserable with no possible gain for it.
This obviously comes with my usual disclaimer: Wisdom is all well and good but violence is always better and will solve any problem provided you use enough of it.
*love*
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Onwards and upwards, etc.
but yes. violence. that's more of what we need :P
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I'm sick of sensible stuff anyway.
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and then i'm going to the target toy sale to buy board games and lego :P
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What board games?
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which isn't a board game. and i really suck at it. but still...
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i'm great at making things look like accidents.
*meaningful look*
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