Update
ok wednesday morning i went to my brothers in leicester and i got there about lunchtie and jsut vegged with him for a bit on wednesday, then on thursday we went into leicetster town and did a load of xmas shopping and in the evening we watched a load of movies and vegged again, friday we went to tescos and pc world and got some food adn things from there and on saturday i came home in the morning did my mums cleaning in the afternoon adn put up all the decorations at our house including the 2 foot fibre optic tree i got to sit on the table top as we arent having anyone over for xmas we dont need a big one. saw cal for the first time in 4 days and it was nice and i had missed him. bles him he rang me on friday night saying how much he was missing me the sweetie. anyway then we watched a movie and settled back to normal and on sunday i went to a family lunch with my parents and grandparents and nan (of which i hadnt seen for two years before and for a very very good reason she is pure evil) anyway had a nice xmas lunch adn then came back and saw cal as he had been working all day the workaholic. wrapped up a load of presents and cleaned my house. came into work this morning and get toild the is a health and safety inspection coming in an hour and i better be ready for it ugh nightmare anyway there was only a few minor things to sort nothing big so i guess it was ok. now i just need to settle back into work after being away for a few days.