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the Helper
Test finished!
you chose CX - your Enneagram type is TWO.
"I must help others"
Helpers are warm, concerned, nurturing, and sensitive to other people's
needs.
How to Get Along with Me
Test finished!
you chose CX - your Enneagram type is TWO.
"I must help others"
Helpers are warm, concerned, nurturing, and sensitive to other people's
needs.
How to Get Along with Me
- Tell me that you appreciate me. Be specific.
- Share fun times with me.
- Take an interest in my problems, though I will ( Read more... )
"I am unique"
Romantics have sensitive feelings and are warm and perceptive.
How to Get Along with Me
Give me plenty of compliments. They mean a lot to me.
Be a supportive friend or partner. Help me to learn to love and value
myself.
Respect me for my special gifts of intuition and vision. -sure-intuition
Though I don't always want to be cheered up when I'm feeling melancholy, Tara, are you ok? yes!
I sometimes like to have someone lighten me up a little.
Don't tell me I'm too sensitive or that I'm overreacting!
What I Like About Being a Four
my ability to find meaning in life and to experience feeling at a deep level -deep! if you know where my mind is
my ability to establish warm connections with people
admiring what is noble, truthful, and beautiful in life -um sure
my creativity, intuition, and sense of humor -ha!
being unique and being seen as unique by others
having aesthetic sensibilities -wtf aesthetic?
being able to easily pick up the feelings of people around me
What's Hard About Being a Four
experiencing dark moods of emptiness and despair -i dont think im that bad
feelings of self-hatred and shame; believing I don't deserve to be loved - um ok thats intense
feeling guilty when I disappoint people
feeling hurt or attacked when someone misundertands me
expecting too much from myself and life
fearing being abandoned
obsessing over resentments
longing for what I don't have
Fours as Children Often
have active imaginations: play creatively alone or organize playmates in
original game
are very sensitive
feel that they don't fit in
believe they are missing something that other people have
attach themselves to idealized teachers, heroes, artists, etc.
become antiauthoritarian or rebellious when criticized or not understood - do i really look rebellious?
feel lonely or abandoned
Fours as Parents
help their children become who they really are
support their children's creativity and originality
are good at helping their children get in touch with their feelings
are sometimes overly critical or overly protective
are usually very good with children if not too self-absorbed
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