Christmas Time
Yes people it is that time of year again when you should all feel peace and goodwill to all.
Why do I think that with what has happened over the last year most of you have no feelings like this what so ever. Yes we all go through bad times and yes we all fall out over both major and minor things and it does not matter what time of year it is it should not make a difference. You are only here once and yes some of the things that people do to us will make us think that we will never ever like that person ever again but in the long run no one can ever hold a proper grudge for all eternity (well perhaps some of you can). I look at it like this I hate certain people, I will always hate certain people because no matter what they do or say I will never see it from their point of view, but I talk to them, I will happily sit there and have a conversation with them and even put up with them being within striking distance and not actually ripping their heads off.
I am not writing this to have a go at anyone (I feel this has to be put evertime now just to be on the safe side because everyone seems to think posts are pointed at them when they cover a large selection in general) but just consider that at one time everyone got on with everyone else, things then happened and then people did not get on with this person or that person. This then escalates to the friends then not getting on with that person because they to a certain extent go with the flow. This can then go full circle because something else then happens and they fall out with someone else and the person they originally fell out with is now their friend again and everything is all sweet again between them.
Does any of this sound familiar?
Annoying when someone points it out isn't it?
I am guilty of this at times but I have learnt to tell the truth from the start and get the nasty bits over and done with so the air is then clear and everyone gets along. Some of you will never do this and thats up to you its your choice you have new friends or old ones that have come back but just think how would it have been if you had still remand friends with everybody.
Why do I think that with what has happened over the last year most of you have no feelings like this what so ever. Yes we all go through bad times and yes we all fall out over both major and minor things and it does not matter what time of year it is it should not make a difference. You are only here once and yes some of the things that people do to us will make us think that we will never ever like that person ever again but in the long run no one can ever hold a proper grudge for all eternity (well perhaps some of you can). I look at it like this I hate certain people, I will always hate certain people because no matter what they do or say I will never see it from their point of view, but I talk to them, I will happily sit there and have a conversation with them and even put up with them being within striking distance and not actually ripping their heads off.
I am not writing this to have a go at anyone (I feel this has to be put evertime now just to be on the safe side because everyone seems to think posts are pointed at them when they cover a large selection in general) but just consider that at one time everyone got on with everyone else, things then happened and then people did not get on with this person or that person. This then escalates to the friends then not getting on with that person because they to a certain extent go with the flow. This can then go full circle because something else then happens and they fall out with someone else and the person they originally fell out with is now their friend again and everything is all sweet again between them.
Does any of this sound familiar?
Annoying when someone points it out isn't it?
I am guilty of this at times but I have learnt to tell the truth from the start and get the nasty bits over and done with so the air is then clear and everyone gets along. Some of you will never do this and thats up to you its your choice you have new friends or old ones that have come back but just think how would it have been if you had still remand friends with everybody.